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Hetero Male Dominant, 30,  Sussex, New Jersey
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Hello, my name is Patrick. I live in upper Jersey and I currently live with my parents. Great start. At least I'm honest. While I can't host I can travel. I'm pretty laid back in terms of my personality and have a wierd sense of humor. I'm also far too helpful. I see it as a curse. In order to fight this curse I'm generally a loner and tend to hang out by myself a lot, but I do have friends just not a lot in this community. I have a few Passions and hobbies too. I like to write short stories, especially the kinky ones. Video games are important for my sanity, particulary open world RPGS. I have an unhealthy obsession with the Fallout Franchise, and an even bigger one for table top games like Dungeons and Dragons, D20 Modern and Hunter the Reckoning. Music is also important to me. While I cant play any instruments I did use to help out with a music label my friends made back in our early 20s. There aren't many genres or eras of music I don't like but my favorites are 40-50's jazz and swing, 80's synth, and any kind of rock or EDM. I also like to sing even though I suck at it. I like movies too but I love animation in all its s. My favorite film is an animation. Science and different philosophies are as addictive as drugs to me. I'm on YouTube a lot listening to character studies, analysis pieces and podcasts. I'm also 420 friendly. Let's smoke a blunt, I'll roll. But of course there's a reason I'm on this site and not on Eharmony or Christian mingle. My tendencies in the bedroom make vanilla relationships for me practically impossible. I think it's only fair to give ination on my main fetishes so whoevers interested knows what they're getting into with me. - DDlg/ABDL: I can be strict but also loving. I have rules that I expect to be followed and I am not above disciplining a 'little' girl if needed. Even if that discipline involves me putting you in a nice thick diaper. - BDSM: I love spanking, toys, collars, leashes you name it. I dont have a lot of experience but want to change that. I'm also here to fulfill my partner’s fantasies. I'm not forceful(Unless you want me to be) so anything you don't want to do we won't do, and a "safe word" is mandatory, end of discussion. - Humiliation: I can't think of anything more humiliating and sexy than a grown woman wearing a diaper and childish frilly clothing against their will. And if you 'deserve' it that's even better. This does not mean you will be subject to public humiliation(unless again you actually want that). These are just some of my fetishes, I have plenty more but these are my top 3 and as good a place as any to start a conversation. I never get to talk to anyone about this stuff so please ask and I'll do the same. Communication is key. Im mostly looking for friends and maybe someone who shares my particular brand of wierdness or just wants to have some fun. If that kind of friendship blossoms into love I won't fight it, but I dont fall in love as easily as use too for certain reasons. I just want some connection. I'm pretty much an open book so feel free to ask me anything. If anyone just feels like cutting to the chase and having a real conversation my k(ik) is PchMasFlx94.












 Dominant Male


 New Jersey

 6' 0"

 200 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Submissive Female

Sub/Sub Couples


Online Romance


 Lives For:


 Erotic Hypnosis


 Spanking you


 Online RPGs

 Role Playing Games

 Paranormal Phenomena


 Electronica / EDM



 Fine Dining


 Flea Markets

 Garage Sales


 Musical Theater

 Renaissance Faires

 Martial Arts (Expert)



 You wearing my collar

 Corner Time

 G-spot Stimulation

 Rear End Play

 Being Massaged

 Hair Pulling

 Placing you on a leash

 Orgasm Control

 Selecting the clothes you wear


 Role Playing

 You wearing stockings



 Science Fiction

 Web Surfing


 Intellectual Discourse



 Eighties Music

 Nineties Music

 Rock Music

 Seventies Music


 Amusement Parks

 Bar Hopping








 Breast Play




 Massage (Giving)

 Medical fetish play

 Obedience Training


 Arcade Games






 Folk Music





 Collaring Ceremonies





 Ice Hockey

 Kick Boxing




 Art Galleries




 Curious About:

 Horseback Riding





 Masks on Partner

 Mental Bondage

 Maid / Butler Service

 Theatrical Scenes





 Blue Grass







 Erotic touch

 Fire Play

 Modern Primitivism


 Wax Play


 TV News

 Country Music


 Electrical Play

 Sensation Play

 Conservative Politics

 Liberal Politics

 Hard Limits:


 TV Sports

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