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Hetero Male Dominant, 48,  Durham, United Kingdom
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Tie me up and spank me " has its place and can be fun :) but shouldn't be confused with a real exploration of yourself - life is a much better place to be when you really understand yourself and self-awareness comes through challenges and overcoming them. For some this comes through life changing experiences and others through a more subtle period of growth. Through a childhood disease that left me at deaths door and in hospital for a year I learnt a lot about myself then and in the years that followed. As part of the process of rediscovering myself I came to refuse peoples preconceptions and liked to astound them. I also worked out that society had a lot of "rules" based on Christian norms and mores that were just plain stupid - life was to short and precious to give up on desires just because of some silly attitudes.

Do I need to be a dom/ master? Really don't know - I register on but struggled to know how to describe myself - not complete yet. As always I'm still learning. I love intelligence and really enjoy this in a woman and i like indepedent thinkers who push at society. So whats my motivation? I like to explore and help others do so. But I also like a woman who has a sub nature, likes to be controlled and wants to explore herself using this a conduit but can still think for herself and won't take crap of a bloke - I hope that makes sense to at least one other person out there:)

for fun:

I’m a big movie fan and prefer fast action or funny films, got far to many DVDs, I like most kinds of music, love eating out, drinking wine, and long lazy duvet snuggles J

my job:

Great job in Business Development linked to helping people with disabilities – fits with my values, means I’m very happy in it, successful and work from home – so very mobile.

favorite hot spots:

I like wandering around shops, coffee and cake, pub lunches, holidays and the sofa. I like eating out and strolls on the beach (when its warm J ), i enjoy live music and occasionally clubs to do the bloke shuffle :) i love travelling nd been loads of places inc Malawi, Kenya, Oman, Thailand, Brazil, Guatemala, Philiphines, Australia, Greek Islands, Gozo, Turkey etc – still got places to go and things I’d love to do!

favourite things:

Food, Cake, Chocolate , Women in corsets, anal hook, British Humour, Hitachi Magic Wand, Silliness, Intelligence, Internet, Mp3 players, Free Porn, wine, Jack Daniels, Gadgets, Water, Big seat on airplanes, pay day

last read:

Love reading – focused on Roman empire and Ancient Greece a the moment – those Spartens were quite something J i

oh and i like intelligent women who love being in a submissive role












 Dominant Male


 United Kingdom

 5' 10"

 150 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Submissive Female

Sub/Sub Couples




 Fine Dining




 Breast Play

 Canes and Crops

 You wearing my collar


 Rear End Play


 Hair Pulling


 Placing you on a leash

 Obedience Training

 Orgasm Control

 Role Playing

 Sensory Play

 Spanking you

 Suspension Bondage




 Bar Hopping

 Coffee Shops


 Musical Theater

 Blindfolding you


 Corner Time

 Electrical Play



 Eye Contact Restrictions

 Domestic Service

 Erotic touch

 Housework Service

 Massage (Giving)

 Mental Bondage


 Selecting the clothes you wear

 Maid / Butler Service

 Outdoor Bondage

 Pony/Puppy Roleplay

 Public Play

 Rubber Fetish


 Speech Restrictions



 Wax Play

 1950s Lifestyle


 Lifestyle BDSM



 Victorian Lifestyle





 Curious About:

 Body Worship

 Fire Play

 Medical fetish play

 Vacuum Stimulation




 Female Sovereignty

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