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Patiently talking to a couple of VERY nice ladies so curb your enthusiasm a bit. Unless, of course, you think you have an offer for me that I just can't refuse. ;)
(do also still read through all of the journal, too - it'll help)
A gentle but firm Dom with some years of experience both on-line and off. Always willing to invest time and effort for the right sub.
I have been here on and off, meddled some, lurked some more. I know most tricks and traps of CM. You will not fool me, not in the long run.
Having been writing this for a while I realised you could do with a table of contents, so there's one below just to let you know what to expect. It is still necessary to read through the whole profile, though - carefully.
- About me...
- About an ideal relationship...
- A few things I am NOT into...
- A few things I am VERY MUCH into...
- Some safety measures...
- Some technicalities...
- Some advice for would be playmates...
- Final notes...
About me...
I am married. She is vanilla, but acknowledges I have other needs. I am allowed to play on a "don't ask don't tell" basis (and so is she). So, you cannot hope for a live in situation, but I am most interested in long term clandestine kind of relationship. Also for this reason I do not have a profile photo. However, I am happy to share it very early on (as should you).
About an ideal relationship...
An ideal such relationship would be mostly (or at least heavily) on-line basis, with occasional real time meetings for proper real time play. However, I will also consider on-line only or one off real time sessions. The former for the person who is just right in many ways, the latter with person(s) who are serious - and attractive enough.
About an ideal partner...
Due to the requirements for a clandestine relationship, a slight advantage goes to married, or otherwise attached women. I don't care if your partner knows or approves, but I will respect your setup in the same way I expect you to respect mine. This also means that I would prefer a more mature lady to play with. However, it does not mean a young girl (above the age of consent, and preferably above 21 for legal reasons) can't be as much fun it not more. It's just that she needs to be mature intellectually. At a push I may also consider a couple, preferably a sub/sub couple. I tend not to be too good at sharing. On the other hand a passive cuckolded husband may be OK to watch or otherwise be kept informed. I also do not put explicit limits on size or shape. I simply need to find you attractive. Do not try to double guess me here, though. DO nto discount yourself without trying, but nor should you be offended if I decide you're not for me.
A few things I am NOT into...
Extremes. Like extreme pain or extreme (especially public) humiliation. Anything illegal in this country (that would be UK - regardless of where you are). Scat (but watersports are a special interest of mine). Lot of BDSM paraphernalia. Some are good, but the rest are just silly. I prefer improvising with whatever's at hand. Feisty subs. I will not fight you. You will submit willingly and fully without being forced to or fighting back. I will make sure you want to.
A few things I am VERY MUCH into...
Stockings, heels, and pantyhose. Classy but sexy dress and demeanour. Total obedience. Worship - your of me. Light spanking and caning. Light bondage - especially self bondage when it comes to on-line. Objectification - interpreted as you being a sex object, for me and/or others. Anal play (but not necessarily enemas). TPE - interpreted as a very high level of control over a sub's private life, not just in play settings.
Some safety measures...
I will protect your discretion and privacy totally. I will expect you to do the same for me. I will always ensure you are safe and well. I will do nothing to endanger your life, your well- being, your family, job, etc. You will afford me exact same courtesy. I will always respect your limits, and allow you to add/remove them as you see fit.
Some technicalities...
I don't particularly care for web cams but I understand appearing on one may be required for a successful on-line (part of) relationship. I will exchange as many photos as you require. You will be expected to do the same. I do not role play where you just imagine things happening. Even on-line I command and you actually do. And provide evidence of it. Which usually means photographic evidence.
Some advice for would be playmates...
Be clever, and be literate. Use proper words, sentences, and punctuation. Be polite, but also be open and forthcoming. Be a friend as well as a sub. I will be a friend as well as a Dom. Be brave and show initiative (including getting in touch first). If you want anything long term be prepared to invest as much time, and regular effort, into it as I will. Play by the rules.
Final notes...
I may be changing this every now and then. Do have a look through now and again even if you've already done it. I may also post journal entries. These will be as important to read as this text. You're well advised to follow them. In fact, even if we are in regular touch otherwise it'd be good if you subscribed to my journal.
Thanks for reading, and let's hope you can be as patient and dedicated as me...
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Sadly, my previous experiences have been vindicated - the kids on here (so, 18 to around 21-ish) really are more trouble than they're worth. I think I'll refrain from getting in touch with them in the future. Too immature and fickle. However, if you are a serious, mature beyond your years, 18 to 21 young lady, you can still get in touch. Just be polite and willing to work with me.
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Ladies from overseas need not hesitate to have a look in. I am more than willing to at least make new friends - if not more - even if only on-line is feasible.
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| Age: 26 |
| Los angeles,
California |
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