Creative, educated, articulate, professional, adult male. In search of a R/T female or couple who ACTUALLY want to meet. I am clean, sane, healthy and experienced. I am not looking for Ken or Barbie. I have an open, realistic mind about who we are physically.

I offer absolute discretion and due to the sensitivity of my primary career will require it as well.

I'm not here to collect photos or entertain a long term pen pal relationship. I can and will provide a photo if you absolutely require it AND I feel comfortable with you. However, I would rather we meet publically so you can evaluate the actual person. This is also a security issue. Me, sending you, a face pic without truely knowing to whom it is going is a bit reckless. I am a single father and need my job and my kids don't need to hear about this from the gossip channels.

Kids! Yes you read that right. Read on and you'll understand.

I especially seek those women and couples who are happy with themselves and/or each other. I do not want to replace something missing from your relationship or marry you. I have been married; I loved her desperately, but I am now widowed (X 7 years) and I am as over it as can be expected but I'm not interested in filling that hole just yet.

IF you are serious AND you seek a true adventure as well as friendship; step up to the plate. Contact me here and lets explore what's next.

Those new to the scene are especially exciting to me as are the people who like to act out (role play) a scenario they have been harboring but not able to play it out for lack of opportunity.

I AM NOT LOOKING FOR A "SLAVE," or to be one. I am looking for inteligent BDSM (emphasis more on BD than SM)folks who want to have fun. I can play either way and will.

Thank you for your time.
Mark