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Hetero Male Submissive, 57,  Tennessee
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Due to my profession, I have not revealed my face on my profile. However, I have no problem sending a facial pic directly if there is sincere interest.

I am very smart, educated, attractive, divorced, in-shape, and in my 50s looking for a connection with someone. I am Alpha and have only been a Top in all my past vanilla relationships, but only a submissive in a BDSM relationship or play. However, I can switch if it pleases my partner.

I am primarily seeking a connection with a good person first and then add a layer of Ds on top. I highly value an intelligent, confident, assertive, and good leader. I also value similar interests as I prefer some type of a relationship or play partner over just a one-off encounter. I am not a masochist, so I am much better suited with someone more sensual over a Sadist. I am prior military, so I like structure and discipline, but one does not need to yell to get things done. No good leader should ever have to do that. I am very eager to please someone I respect not someone spoiled or lazy. I also need to have a way to succeed to please my partner or I will become frustrated very quickly. I am always looking for ways to anticipate the needs of my partner.

As for any kink or fetishes, it is much more about the mental aspect or power exchange than the act itself. I will push limits if it turns on my partner. I am claustrophobic, so any fetishes with cages, plastic wraps, breathe play, Queening or face sitting while bound, and mummification is a hard limit. However, I am ok with hoods, blindfolds, and bondage once trust is established.

I look for someone to bring out the best in me and perhaps awaken my inner most desires that could bring happiness to us both.

Lastly, I am totally turned off by greedy people seeking money. If you are lazy and have not established a way to generate income on your own in the vanilla world, you will never be a good leader, a true dominant, or gain my respect. Trust and respect is earned not given and I realize that goes both ways.








Last Online:


 Submissive Male







Actively Seeking:

Dominant Transgender

Dominant Female

Submissive Female

Switch Women

Domme/Dom Couples

Femdom Couples

Friends Only

Online Romance

 Lives For:

 Body Worship




 Anal Play


 Breast Play

 Hair Pulling


 Sensory Deprivation


 Country Music

 Eighties Music






 Horseback Riding




 Canes and Crops


 Foot Worship

 Housework Service



 Massage (Getting)

 Massage (Giving)

 Mental Bondage

 Obedience Training

 Orgasm Denial

 Pantyhose Fetish

 Role Playing






 Card Games

 TV Sports



 Diet and Exercise

 Lifestyle BDSM

 Alternative Music

 Blue Grass

 Electronica / EDM

 Nineties Music


 Pop Music

 Rock Music



 Ice Hockey




 Electrical Play



 Speech Restrictions

 Curious About:






 Masks (Wearing)

 Public Play

 Role Playing Games


 Female Led Relationships



 Genital Punishment

 Conservative Politics

 Liberal Politics

 Libertarian Politics





 Pony/Puppy Roleplay

 TV News


 Hard Limits:



 Fire Play

 Gas Masks

 Knife Play

 Medical Play

 Needle Play

 Plastic Wrap



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