Not terribly good at writing bios so I'll keep this short and add to it as I go. Basically I am a submissive male looking to give myself as a sub or slave to an experienced dominant. I have some experience with BDSM, but want to broaden my horizons. I know this is essentially a religion for some people, with a lot of deep philosophy behind it but it's hard for me to engage in a deep philosophical discussion about the lifestyle, which some people seem to want to start conversations with. I certainly know what I enjoy, what I want, and what drives me and can speak to that. If I have to think too much to formulate a response I probably won't. I'm open to most aspects of the lifestyle, and enjoy experiencing new things. I do have some hard limits and can certainly discuss. One thing I have found is that it seems like being a submissive means something different to each dominant, and they have their mind set on finding a specific person who already fits perfectly into what they want. I guess that comes from being burned by people in the past. For me it seems like a big part of it is not already being a perfect sub already, but essentially being a clean slate so you can be trained and molded over time,with both people deriving pleasure from the training process that goes with it. Ultimately I want someone to relinquish control of myself to, bend me to their will, and mold me into their ideal servant. Along with that I definitely enjoy the physical and mental bondage and punishment aspects that go with the process. No financial dommes. I want something ongoing, with someone I can connect with, that truly enjoys the lifestyle.