Having experienced the lifestyle, I now hope to build a lasting bond with the right partner. Rather than surprise a vanilla prospect with my alternative interests, it seems considerate that I search the D/s community. So if you seek a long-term relationship, let’s entertain the possibilities…and each other.

As I call myself a switch, I must add that I am not so inclined to trade roles back and forth with my companion. But that I am in that middle ground between the two persuasions and am able to fully invest in the relationship as it is meant to be.

I am enthralled by the power of women and aspire to the joys of devotion, yet my core self requires respect and cultivation. I am not cruel or a sadist by any means but am quite comfortable to be in control and show my lover the many ways to feel. I believe myself to be right for a Top who appreciates masculinity and adult company, or a sub searching for leadership and the blissful surrender of oneself.

I hope to form a bond in all realms, knowing they each may have their own dynamic. Our sensual connection will grow from that. I do think it better that power rests in the hands of one, yet I seek to be with an equal co-discoverer of the roles that serve us best.