Please don't be afraid to say HI! I have this profile here to help me meet new people and make friends. I want to hear from you.

If you take the time to read my profile text, below, all the way through, by the time you are finished, you should know enough about me to decide if a connection with me is potentially worth your effort.

ABOUT ParadoxD:
REAL, fun, sane, safe, intelligent, open minded, stable, mature, professional, successful, independent, free- spirited, white, male Master/Dominant with nothing to prove and no baggage. I tend to be blunt without mincing words or sugar coating issues to make them more acceptable to others or politically correct. I am more concerned about truth, safety, and reality than political correctness, showing off, and fantasy. I am the type of man who makes things happen, rather than either watching stuff happen or wondering what happened.

You cannot get to know and understand me without also knowing the profile and personage of the woman with whom I have been in an open relationship for more than 25 years: ParadoxS. In my scene name, ParadoxD, the "D" is for Dominant in lieu of "M" for master, simply because it sounds better to me. In the scene name ParadoxS, the uppercase letter "S" is used by design and it stands for slave/switch; and uppercase lettering is employed in order to avoid pronunciation perplexity); coincidentally, it is also the first letter of her given name. "Paradox" is a homophonic earmark for our professions and kink paralleling preferences/realities. (See if you can figure it out, by the time you finish reading this profile text, and if you do, please drop me a message and let me know you figured it out.)

I am married to ParadoxS. We have 2 children in college. We reside in Geneva (near Sanford), Florida (in Central Florida -- draw a diagonal line between Orlando and Daytona, point to the middle of that line and you have Geneva on any map). We travel at least 2 out of every 4 weekends in our Class A, 34-foot, single slide out, fully-equipped motorhome, to somewhere we can camp and enjoy something related to our lifestyle preferences; hence, distance is not an issue to us. We are totally dedicated to one another; for this cause, we are no threat to anyone else's relationship(s).

By the way, the term BDSM, for us, identifies something we do and a lifestyle preference we share; it does not define who we are as human beings. This means we live the lifestyle 24/7/365 whenever possible, for the pure pleasurable, comfortable, and intimate experiences is provides us. It does not mean, however, that BDSM/kink consumes our thoughts every waking moment in life. We cherish our time together that we are able to allocate to the BDSM mode, and whenever and with whomever we share our time and experiences, we expect respect for our preferences as we respect others and total dedication by all parties to making sure everybody concludes playtime feeling that he or she positively contributed to the experience and has been personally enriched by what we all shared.

PARAMOUNT GOAL:
We are interested in meeting, befriending, and playing with other BDSM, like-minded folks -- our goal is just that simple. We have decades of experience and a broad enough assortment of BDSM/kinky (as well as vanilla) interests that keep all the times we share with others interesting, enjoyable, exciting, and worthy of future playtime adventures. We want to grow our cluster of BDSM friends and spend more time with compatible, like-minded people in scenes, environments, and social settings.

PERSPECTIVE:
We travel frequently throughout Florida, regularly about the country, and occasionally around the world; thus, distances between us and friends (BDSM/kinky and vanilla/latex) are never issues and easily surmounted by making a plan, whenever we really want to get together with one another. We have friends throughout the world of all ages, body shapes, heights, and weights; with a wide-array of diverse interests, many different levels of education, as well as varied careers; and, of all skin colors.

The level of experience a person has in BDSM does not matter to us -- attitude matters! Hence, neither age, nor looks, nor interests, nor education, nor job, nor race are ever an issue to us; only attitude matters! Being disease-, smoke-, and drug-free all rate highly with us, though.

ABOUT US:
We are both honest, sincere, considerate, level-headed, well mannered, and down to earth people with a sense of humor, love of life, and dedication to helping others enrich their lives. We are also both drama-free and appreciate that in our friends and playmates. Further, beyond being seemingly regular folks, good parents, and a married couple, we are quite well known in our (vanilla) residential community and healthcare professions. Notwithstanding, we choose to keep our alternative lifestyle choices private in order to not complicate either the lives of our children or our careers; additionally, our privacy assures us that we do not have to deal with questions that can be distracting in otherwise professional, vanilla/latex settings. (I trust you understand exactly what I mean.)

Corresponding to our work in health and wellness (he has 2 doctorates and she 1; he is a college professor and operates a private practice; she is part of a multi-practitioner center), we have interests in things supporting and complementing a good state of current health, the observance of superior dietary practices, and long-term well-being. For this cause, we appreciate and respect BDSM play that incorporates cleanliness, safety, and sanity. We read a lot of books, papers, articles, etc. related to a variety of health disciplines, sciences, and alternate lifestyle choices. She enjoys skating, biking, swimming, and walking for outdoor exercising. He bikes and has played 4-wall racquetball, for recreation, at least once per week since he was 18 years old.

When it comes to matters of BDSM/kink, on one hand, she, ParadoxS, is collared to Him, ParadoxD. In perfect harmony with her naturally developed personality, ParadoxS boasts a lifestyle orientation as a submissive, along with a willingness to serve in and contribute to not only the BDSM community in particular but all of humanity at large. As a slave/switch, when granted permission from ParadoxD, she will top. Nevertheless, she is always more than willing to remain in the slave status and serve accordingly.

In all honesty and without trying to sound boastful, she is a beautiful, caring, wonderful human being who just happens to hold a natural submissive personality. She is one of the nicest, most genuine, thoughtful people you will ever meet in the vanilla, swirl, or BDSM worlds. She can be approached virtually effortlessly, remain friendly and nonjudgmental, and continue as someone with whom you can easily get along.

On the other hand, He, ParadoxD, is a quieter, more controlled and controlling, cerebral type (but socially and professionally well-able to easily communicate with people from all walks of life). He, as the natural Dom in the pair, never forgets the interests of His slave or participating sub(s), and keeps in mind her/their needs, desires, and goals along with their rights regarding consent and safety. Thus, although not of a sub personality, I, ParadoxD, as a Dominant, often have an interest in pleasing a sub in a controlled manner during play or scene (if, of course, the sub "earns" such a privilege).

Should we get to know one another, you will perceive me as having an approachable, calm, patient, romantic, and firm personality. I am as much interested in the psychological aspects of BDSM as in the physical play. I believe submission is a gift placed upon a foundation of trustworthiness; therefore, it commands responsibility and gratitude. The greater the degree of submission that is voluntarily surrendered to me, the greater the gift I receive; and the greater the gift given, the greater the honor I receive.

With select friends and play partners, at choice times, ParadoxS and ParadoxD will both contribute to scenes in dominant roles over one or more subs/slaves, with or without another dominant. Additionally, in a scene, we can negotiate for me to fulfill the role of dominant, while ParadoxS and another sub(s)/slave(s) serve as the dominated subjects. Furthermore, with permission from me, when encouraged and given instructions, ParadoxS will perform very well in a top position - on her own - over another female or male submissive playmate.

ParadoxS is 5'-7" and goes up and down around 135 pounds. I am 5'- 11.5" and about 165 pounds. You would not mistake us for either Clark Kent and lois lane or Ken and barbie, but we are a couple of relatively easy on the eyes, clean, unruffled, realistic, and understanding individuals who blend perfectly into our 25+ year relationship and either play well alone together or in a small to large group with others.

WHERE and WHEN WE ENJOY PLAYING:
We love to drive and are often willing to visit with others outside our home county of Seminole. We enjoy playing at private BDSM clubs and dungeons, at private group parties, and in the private homes of like-minded people with a single friend or paired couple. We travel in a motorhome and appreciate convenience, cleanliness, and good sanitation as well as privacy, wherever and whenever we engage in BDSM activities.

Our best opportunities for play fall on the weekends and minor holidays. The less time we spend traveling, the more time, naturally, we have for socializing and play. While on either vacations or business trips, weekdays as well as weekends are often made available for special, alternative lifestyle recreational activities.

PLAYTIME INTERESTS and SKILLS:
Communication is a key element whenever intimate behavior is expressed in a relationship or BDSM scene. We consider ourselves as co-partners with those whom we play and thus equally responsible for making sure that all communication before, during, and after playtime is conducted in a clear and certain manner. Therefore, we aim to communicate constantly with others about the components employed in, and progress of, all scene play.

Although we remain open to negotiating virtually any scene play not excluded by our limitations, below, nobody can be an expert at everything. That is why, regardless of all things enjoyed, we consider ourselves as proficient in only certain areas and reasonably enabled in most others. Our playtime main interests and skills involve: blindfolds, body painting, bondage, electrical stimulation play, breast play, canes, crops, corner time, face slapping, flogging, gags, hair pulling, hypnosis (professional), humiliation, insertions, massaging, medical play, movement restrictions, nudity, obedience training, objectification, orgasm control, paddling, pet play, sexual gratification, spanking, speech restrictions, suction play, tickling, vibrators, waxing, and whipping.

Of course, most of the time, it is impractical to expect any one scene to incorporate all of our main interests and skills; therefore, we tend to focus on what scene options are found mutually interesting to our play partner(s) and build from there. Moreover, where our interests diverge with others we, simply, tend to exclude incompatible activities from all playtime with them. This way, everybody is assured that all limits will remain respected and all preferences valued, and all ideas on how to have safe, sane, and consensual fun are entertained by us.

LIMITATIONS:
There is not much about which you could consider us squeamish. If something does arise that is just too hardcore for us, though, we will, simply, decline without prejudice.

Hard Limits include: No animals, alcohol (in excess of legal driving limit), branding, children, cutting, dismemberment, drugs, exchanging of bodily fluids, permanent markings, scaring, scat, smoking (in scene domain), tattooing, or anything illegal or that will cause harm to anybody. In all cases your limits will be incorporated into our playtime together and shall, therefore, be respected at all times!

Please remember that, although sexual gratification is often part of BDSM play, ParadoxD and ParadoxS should never be deemed a swinging couple. Our lifestyle arrangement Husband/wife, Male/female, Master/slave, with interests, values, and ideas related to nudity at large and BDSM in particular. Sex is sometimes, possibly, complementary to a scene; however, it is never -- never -- the sole intent, goal, or meaning to our activities and participation.

No means no -- always. Red means stop immediately. Safe means safe. Sane means sane. Fun means everybody enjoys things freely, safely, and securely in a respectful manner.

WHAT WE ARE SEEKING:
We enjoy the company of others in all sorts of lifestyles, and are open-minded for all sort of naturist, BDSM, and kink-like activities.

We seek like-minded, open, drama-free, safety-minded, respectful, fun-loving, respectful friends who have at least some BDSM interests in common and with us, and with whom we can play and develop a high-quality, trusting, relationship that includes kinky as well as vanilla/latex socializing and BDSM play. Our friends and playmates should have neither expectations nor fantasies that either ParadoxD or ParadoxS will divorce the other and marry her or him. Additionally, our friends and playmates must be real people, not website fakes, and interested in building a real time relationship with both of us that is founded on honesty, openness, and communication.

INQUIRIES:
If you have any questions, please, do not hesitate to contact us and ask away. We are usually willing to respond to anybody or couple who has questions, is curious, or just wishes to have engage in some casual discussions related to the profile text above or BDSM lifestyle options in general. Please, no ongoing cyber chatting, though.

We cannot emphasize this enough: We are serious; we are legitimate; and all we said above is true; for this cause, contact us only if you are serious and ready to take it to real time meetings or wish to engage in rational discussions.

Thank you.

(We have the same profile information on ParadoxS as well.)