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Knowing yourself is the beginning of all wisdom

First and foremost, I am human. Respect me as such and we will get along fine.
I am a Sadomasochistic Switch and play hard no matter which end of the cane I am on. I am here to keep in contact with old friends, meet new friends and to find new play partners.
Dominants/Tops interested in playing with me should know the following
  • -I am neither a submissive, nor a slave - trying to force me into either of those roles is a waste of my time and yours.

  • -I am not a doormat. I will respectfully stand my ground.

  • -Dominance is no excuse for rudeness.

  • - I am currently in an open poly relationship. My family and partner know I am here seeking a play partner only. Please understand you will not replace my partner or family.

  • Submissives/Slaves/Bottoms interested in playing with me should know the following*
  • -Do not mistake My good manners for weakness. I say please and thank you because dominance is no excuse for rudeness.
-I have no sexual use for you.
  • -We are all adults here. you need to be GROWN UP enough to admit to yourself and accept your submission, your fetishes, and this lifestyle down to the core of your being. YES that includes being bi-sexual, heteroflexible, masochistic, a foot lover, cross dresser, whatever the case may be. Own up to who and what you are.
  • -You need to be strong and secure in your manhood/womanhood, no matter what I do to you.

  • - I am currently in an open poly relationship. My family and partner know I am here seeking a play partner. Please understand you will not replace my partner or family.
-=-
9/21/2013 2:12:12 PM

WOOHOO!!!

 

I am now a certified Bellyfit instructor!  I teach on Tuesday nights in the San Fernando Valley.  For more info, please go to  http://www.bellyfit.com/about/what-is-bellyfit/

  or email me here.

 

thanks!

9/11/2013 12:14:59 PM

Im planning on hitting the Lair next Friday.  Im looking for a sub/masochist to play with. 

 

If interested, give me a buzz.

 

FYI =play does not equal sex.

8/4/2013 10:59:09 AM

A day that starts with an awesome breakfast, great coffee, is filled with dancing and drumming and ends with bad movies and snuggles....

 

Its going to be a great day tater!

11/12/2012 10:22:24 AM

Hey folks-

Im not at all ignoring you. Ive been in bed sick for the past week. Im still pretty sick so it will be atleast another week before Im active here.

 

Thanks

9/30/2012 9:38:34 PM

Im seeking a photographer to a shoot for my new website.  No nudity. Glamour, fetish/bdsm shoot.  Also seeking a demo model for the shoot male/female/tg doesnt matter.

 

Contact me.

9/3/2012 12:09:17 AM

I'm looking for a dominant male play partner.

Please note:

  • I am neither slave nor submissive and can not be forced into those roles.  I want to bottom to someone who understand that BDSM and sex are not auto-inclusive.
  • I do not play on the first "date".  We will need to meet, before we play. 

If you are interested in playing, send me a private message.

8/27/2012 9:33:31 AM

Hi highly recommend this to subs, bottoms, slaves and servants.

 

Servant's Retreat 1 - Phoenix, AZ

https://www.bdsmclasses.com/sr.php

6/30/2012 8:03:10 PM

I am not seeking a romantic relationship.  I am seeking a servant and a masochist.

9/23/2011 9:28:59 AM

Please note:


 

Your first correspondence to me should not be a request to add me to your circle.  That is just tacky.

You request will be rejected.


 

Please stick to proper introductory communications.


 

This applies to everyone (Doms, Switches and subs)

 

7/12/2011 4:19:59 PM

I am in a bad mood.  

 

I want a target for my aggressions. 

 

Pain Sluts may write me.

7/6/2011 5:00:57 PM

Dearest submissives & slaves-


Do not make the mistake of assuming that my "Switch" status means that you can address me in a disrespectful manner.    My submission belongs to one.  I submit to Him alone, I RULE  any/everyone else.  


I do not respond to "Wish List" emails. Letters that begin with " I want", "You should", or "I want you to...".


Address me properly. I am your Dominant.  you may address Me as Miss or Goddess.

2/17/2011 9:31:18 AM

Please make sure that you read my entire profile that includes my interests.
If you have a problem with my spiritual beliefs, keep them to yourself and dont contact me.
 It is such a shame that on a BDSM site (where being open minded is such an important thing) there are such close minded and judgmental people.  
I don't care what your role is in life, you do not get to pass judgment on me because my beliefs are different that yours.

I am not evil, I do not practice dark things, I am not mentally challenged, i do not belong to a cult ( as suggested by someone who shall not be named.)
If you are ignorant of the old ways, that's fine, alot of people are.   It is better to cure ignorance with knowledge than to fuel it with assumptions and stereotypes. 
Feel free to ask me questions about it.

2/17/2011 8:40:56 AM

Please note:


 

Your first correspondence to me should not be a request to add me to your circle.  That is just tacky.

You request will be rejected.


 

Please stick to proper introductory communications.


 

This applies to everyone (Doms, Switches and subs)

2/10/2011 7:29:06 PM

Schedule of events for Venus (Fem Dom) Night at the Lair De Sade, in North Hollywood California:

 

February 18, 2011--------Medical Play / Piercing
March 18, 2011----------Impact Play/Electro Torture
April 15, 2011-----------Easter Egg hunt

 

If you have any questions, feel free to contact me or Princess_of_ Pain.

2/9/2011 6:52:30 PM

Please note, I do not participate in race play. 

I am more concerned with your intellect and ability rather than the origin of your people.

 

 

2/7/2011 6:11:45 PM

Attn Male Subs:

I don't care about your penis size, length & skill of your tongue, or how much you need your ass pounded.

I have no sexual use for you. No desire to hear about your tiny penis.

You've mistaken me for someone who wants to live out your fantasies.

11/19/2010 6:53:08 PM

Attn: Foot lovers!!!

Tonight is Foot fetish night.  If you woul like to worship some beautiful feet, come out to Venus Night @ the Lair Desade.

 

www.lairdesade.com

 

 

 

 

5/9/2010 11:54:10 AM
Happy Mother's Day!

My Mom and I will be celebrating next weekend, when everything will be less crowded.

:-)
3/13/2010 6:42:06 AM
Please note:

I am not interested in playing on line, training online, or online slaves/servants/submissives.

If you can not meet me in person in a reasonable time frame, do not bother contacting me.
2/27/2010 2:07:05 PM
FYI

I will not add you to my circle of friends/be added to your circle of friends if I do not know you.
2/15/2010 3:45:38 PM
I just moved into the new place and do not have internet service just yet.  So be patient, I will respond at my earliest convenience.
1/28/2010 10:53:05 PM
Attn Male Subs:

I dont care about your penis size, length & skill of your tounge, or how much you need your ass pounded.

I have no sexual use for you. No desire to hear about your tiny penis.

You've mistaken me for someone who wants to live out your fantasies.

I do what I want, to whom I want.  The way into my world is to man up and do as you are told.
1/25/2010 7:29:35 PM
2things

1. I need to move. No room mates. Seeking a large single, loft or 1 bedroom for myself and my 2 kitties. Needs to be somewhere between Sherman Oaks/Granada Hills & Camarillo.  Simi Valley would be ideal.

2. I am in the worst of moods and need a body to beat. Please be somewhat masochistic. If you dont start off that way, you will end that way.

Contact me for more info.
12/6/2009 10:48:04 PM
FYI- I lost my phone during a performance today.  Will post when I get a new one.  
10/14/2009 6:47:06 PM
Please note:

I am not interested in mindless, spineless, helpless submissive/slaves.

I like submissives who are MEN first and SUB/Slave second.

I enjoy manipulating your masculinity. I enjoy macho yet mature men who are confident in themselves and comfortable in his manhood.
10/1/2009 3:15:23 AM
Insomnia blows.....
any suggestions for cures?
9/15/2009 6:54:05 AM
I will not add you to my circle of friends if I do not know you.
8/23/2009 10:46:41 PM
I will be a guest on the Rev Mel  show ontalkingsexradio.com Monday 9/24 @7:30pm :-)
6/7/2009 9:55:55 PM
My birthday is the 15th,
Venus night is the 19th, who wants my birthday spanks?
5/15/2009 8:43:41 PM
Venus Tonight @ the Lair de Sade.

Bring your canes, should be fun.


3/20/2009 8:56:56 PM
Going to the Lair for Venus night. Who's going with me?
12/19/2008 8:04:21 PM
I am not taking on any subs, slaves at the moment.  I am only interested in service based submission (cleaning, running errands, driving me around, doing my hair, etc)
12/15/2008 12:01:05 AM
This Friday is Venus night @ the Lair de Sade. Who will be there with me.  Masochists are absolutely welcome (I have a few things to work out) lol... IF there are any questions, feel free to contact me or go to www.lairdesade.com
11/30/2008 10:59:32 AM
I find myself needing to relax and regroup. Suggestions of places to go/things to do for a quick short vacation are appreciated.
11/29/2008 8:12:27 PM
I am bored and want to go to the Lair tonight, who else is going?
11/20/2008 6:18:58 PM
Tomorrow night I will be at Venus night at the Lair in North Hollywood.  For more info got to www.lairdesade.com
11/9/2008 9:15:37 AM
Looking for a personal trainer in the SFV or SGV.
10/19/2008 4:00:44 PM
Thank you to those of you who were concerned about me during the fires.  Be glad to know that I was very well taken care of during that time, and was lucky enough not to have been evacuated and not to have had to catch the bus to work during that scary time ( thanks to my driver)
10/6/2008 7:41:35 PM
Due to the flakiness of recently encountered male submissives, I am now seeking a guitar teacher and a cleaning slave AGAIN.  Please excuse me while I vent....Why is it that so many male submissives are complete and total flakes?  Are there any REAL male submissives? Are there any guys here relish in the satisfaction of merely doing what I say?  If you are one of these rare diamonds in the rough, contact me.
9/18/2008 5:33:28 AM
I need a driver. I need someone to drive me from Tujunga to Woodland hills to work everyday in the morning, and pick me up in the evening.

You need to drive safely, have all needed legal info( license, insurance, registration, etc).
9/15/2008 8:45:47 AM
I am sad.  My truck, "The BEAST" is dying and I have to find a new truck soon.

Please keep an eye out, and let me know when you find something good.

Thanks
8/12/2008 3:07:08 PM
Attn: Los Angeles/Valley based Yogi's

I am looking for a pesonal yoga/pilates instructor. In home lessons would be ideal, but I am willing to travel to you occassionally.

Please know that I am Not Flexible, but flexibilty and strength are my main goals.

Contact me with any questions or info.

Thanks

8/12/2008 9:51:49 AM
VENUS NIGHT @ THE LAIR
 This Friday Night.

I will be there and so should you.

This is the night for Fem Doms and their subs.  Eveyone is welcome, but only Fem dom led scenes are allowed on this night.

For more info, please visit

www.lairdesade.com
8/10/2008 3:01:17 PM
Ok so now that I have a guitar teacher. I am working on that.

I need a dance teacher. I am open to most styles (contemporary, ballroom, lating, bellydance, etc) as long as the teacher is aware that I have never taken classes before.


I love to dance so this should be fun.

Just call me Papillion le artiste, LOL
{excuse the bad french}

Any volunteers?
7/28/2008 10:05:43 AM
My guitar as all tuned and strung and ready to go. Now I just need a teacher.  Any volunteers?
7/11/2008 5:58:44 PM
Attention Los Angeles Based Guitar players.

I am looking for someone to tune and re-string my guitar. I just got a great deal from the goodwill for $20. Its in great condition. It is an Encore version of a Gibson humminbird. I am also looking for an instructor.   

My schedule is still pretty much open, as I am still recovering from my surgery.   

Message me if interested.
6/20/2008 9:09:51 AM
Hello all,
This is just an update.  I am home from the hospital.  All went well with the surgery (BTW I have super gross pictures of what they took out of me, lol).  I have to lay low for about 4 to 6 weeks (maybe less depending on what the doctor says at my next appt) and try not to be bored of my butt. So by all means, feel free to email my medicated, bored ass..lolol.
5/11/2008 9:24:20 PM
Tattoo Questions:

Reposted for a friend:

I need to have surgery in June. I want to get my symbol  tattooed this week.  IS 3-4 weeks enough time for my body to heal before surgery?
3/3/2008 6:55:15 PM
Dear submissives and switches,
 Please do not send photos of your genitals, unless specifically requested by Me (which by the way, I never request such things).

Thank You,

M. Papillion
1/20/2008 7:59:26 AM
Hi Honeys,
I will be without internet for a few weeks. Between moving and moving again.  YIM on my phone or AIM at work is the best way to reach me.

TTYL


~M. Papillion
1/18/2008 1:12:58 AM
 

You are hereby invited to...

~*~ VENUS ~*~
"An evening devoted to the free expression of Females in Control... and those who enjoy them!"


~*~ FRIDAY, JANUARY 18, 2008 ~*~

hosted by,
The Sweet & Vicious
~*~ MISTRESS PAPILLION ~*~
At

Lair de Sade
6628 Lankershim Blvd.
North Hollywood, CA. 91606

(818) 255-5507

The Venus BDSM-D/s Party is a Female Dominant "scene-restricted" event; this means while all orientations can attend, scenes are restricted to those with Female Dominants only.

For C.C.Inc. Members & Their Guests Only!

Have your C.C.Inc. membership card ready to show at the door. If you are not a C.C.Inc member, you must be the guest of one, sign a release form and present valid picture ID at the front desk.

Adults 21+ Only
No ID = No Entry. No Exceptions.

PLEASE Enhance the atmosphere and dress your sexy/fetish best!
(& get as naked & nasty as you dare once inside)

Admission cover is $30 per member/invited guest!
(there is no cover charge for Platinum members, who pay $50 each per month for coverage to all events)

All Guests Must RSVP or Arrive With Their Sponsoring Member

The Gate Opens At 9:00 p.m. and the Gate Locks At 11:00 p.m. (if you want to arrive later, it's no problem... just call 818-255-5507 if the gate is locked)

The Lair closes at ??? (whenever everyone wears out & leaves)

Exquisite Furniture! Over 35 Fabulous BDSM Stations to Explore.
~*~ Newly refurbished patio complete with new firepit! ~*~

Arrive Early to Feast on Tasty Treats... Always including Careena's Chocolate Chip/Walnut Cookies!

Coffee, Coke/Diet Coke & Bottled Water are provided.
Attendees are Welcome To Bring Their Refreshment Of Choice.
There are wine/bottle openers, glasses, and an outdoor refrigerator for everyone's use.
The club does not provide alcohol; for those who plan to be drinking at Venus, please do so responsibly.

There are also CD/tape players in most play areas...
* Bring your favorite music to scene with - anywhere except the main ballroom!

~*~ BASIC RULES ~*~

* Cameras/recordings are NOT allowed at the party.

* All Illegal Drugs/Sex Solicitations Prohibited On Premises
(nor may anyone solicit/engage in "pay for play" at the Lair)

* Get as nasty, creative and decadent as you dare... the only limit is that Mutual CONSENT & RESPECT are Mandatory!

NOTE: Disbursement of negative energy disrespects a party or social... Keep it off the premises, please.
* The Lair is a large place with numerous areas to enjoy. If you see something (or someone) that "turns you off"... just move elsewhere. If anyone disturbs you/your scene in a manner that violates any of the rules that are posted in every room, please do not hesitate to notify staff at the front desk.
* No one is immune to what few rules we have for the enjoyment of all... all attendees deserve an atmosphere in accordance with the expectations the rules create.
~*~*~*~*~*~**~

Come indulge your passions in the magical,
unique energy of this most intimate,
all-Female-Dominant-scene-controlled, BDSM atmosphere!
At
VENUS
~*~ THIS Friday, JANUARY 18th, 2007 ~*~

1/7/2008 11:32:55 AM
Just a heads up, I am still seeking a new residence (see previous entry for details).


I am no longer in need of a suv, thanks to sub j.
12/27/2007 11:24:38 PM
Coming Soon.. Video Clips

Starting Feb 08, I will be launching a  new website with a video clip store. I am now taking suggestions/requests for the type of videos you'd like to see  Although I will not be doing anything nude, sexual or illegal, but am open to other fetishs & fantasies
12/15/2007 10:58:19 PM
Really not trying to be a bitch....BUT..... if you are going to email me please have more to say than just.. "Hi  Mistres".  Strike up a conversation, or state what compelled you to write me.
12/14/2007 8:56:30 AM
I need to get a new vehicle.  I'd prefer a truck or small suv, however a vw jetta or passat is also acceptable.  
12/14/2007 8:55:19 AM
I am moving soon. I am looking for a 1bdrm in the valley, that allows cats (I have 2) and has lots of closet space at a reasonable price. Kinky property managers/owners can negotiate sessions as part of rent. Subbies who find an acceptable apt for me will get to have a scene with me in my new space. No room mates please, I'd prefer to live alone.
10/14/2007 8:49:08 AM

Just a note, I will be changing/updating my profile shortly.

9/21/2007 5:38:47 PM
I am looking for an alpha male sub to add to my family.( I already have 1 male sub/pet)

Please be local and secure in your manhood (no matter what I do to you). The following traits are prefered:

*Bi Sexual - Switch
* Be able to/like to cook
* have a sense of humor
* be under 50
* at least my height


Please note this is to join my lifestyle family-- the goal is to be long term-- so no married, involoved or unavailable men
8/13/2007 9:14:07 PM
Mistress is in need of 2 or 3 strong guys to help My sub load furniture in venice and unload at my home in altadena on friday morning while I'm at work.

If My sub gives Me a satisfactory report on your work performance, you will be rewarded. The reward will constist of play and/or worship of my feet and/or legs.

Send your contact information A.S.A.P. to be considered.
6/4/2007 5:40:55 PM
I 'm looking for someone to build a closet and some shelves for me. Contact me for specifics.
5/14/2007 7:13:24 PM
Attn: Foot lovers

I will be on a show this friday all about foot fetish/foot woriship.  I am looking for several foot lovers (male & female) to accompany me.  Contact me for more info.
4/27/2007 10:12:25 PM
Attn Shoe & Boot Lovers:

I am selling a few pairs of My Boots & Shoes.
   -- Thigh high PVC black boots
   -- Knee high lace up leather boots
  --  4 inch leather heels with eyelet
   ---4 1/2 inch black pumps with silver heel

I will be adding more to this list. Contact Me for details.
4/27/2007 10:09:28 PM
Hello all, I will be moving to the alta dena area within the next 2-3weeks. I am looking for someone to paint & build shelving in my bedroom & bathroom. I also need someone to help move my stuff (must have your own truck/van).  Contact Me for details.
4/10/2007 1:36:27 AM
Just FYI, I will be on vacation from 04/10/07 thru 05/01/07.
4/2/2007 8:26:26 PM
Hello all,

    Getting back into the swing of things.  Now I need someone to build my wesbiste & do my businss cards.  Contact me for details.
12/16/2006 3:19:00 PM
Position Openings:

1. Personal Chef

2. Chauffer

3. Hair Dresser/Braider

4. Maid/ House Cleaning Slave

5. Errand boy/girl

details are listed in my yahoo group.
10/29/2006 12:57:16 PM
As of Novemeber 1st, I will be accepting pro-sessions again.  Please conact Me for session type and appointment information.
7/13/2006 10:14:57 PM
Lets make something clear.  I mean no offense to anyone, how ever I am not here to help you explore your " dark side".  I find nothing dark about submission or a D/s relationship.

A D/s relationship can be a beautiful and enlightening experience.
6/6/2006 7:22:38 PM

Bored....

I am planning My birthday activities for next week. I'm contemplating taking J to Venus night or going somewhere vanilla and freaking out the normals.
I plan to start celebrating from next Thrusday (that is my actual birthday) until the next Thursday.  Any excuse to party for a week.

My Birthday Desires List will be on my yahoo group.

5/15/2006 6:48:20 PM

Looking for an inexpensive little point a to point b car.  Must run great, an automatic is prefered.
Gas is so expensive that putting gas in my car is like having 2 car notes.

Email me if you have reliable yet inexpensive car for sale.

thanks

5/6/2006 9:19:47 PM

Just an F.Y. I., I have found someone to do my home improvements.

Thanks

4/22/2006 12:52:30 PM
I am looking for a handyman/woman.  Someone to hang pictures in My home, put together a shelving system and build another small storage system in My bathroom.  I want this to be done before Friday the 29th.   you must have all your own power tools.
2/3/2006 10:10:23 AM

I am currently looking for new play partners and eventual submissives/slaves.  I'd prefer single males or submissive couples.  Males should be ad least 6'3 or taller. Females should be 5’8 or taller. Newbies are welcome, pain sluts are preferred. You must live in the greater Los Angeles area or be willing/able to commute to Me. 

 

**Please note that being My play partners will be viewed as the 1st step to becoming my property**

 

1/31/2006 8:10:25 PM
Thank you so much for all of the kind words, offers for assistance.   
12/10/2005 9:10:57 AM

*****Personal Trainer Wanted*****

I am seeking a personal trainer who can work around my injured foot. ( It was fractured in 3 places about 4 months ago, just recently had my walking cast removed)

I am anxious to get some of my injury weight off. 

Must be mainly low to no impact but highly effective.  

you must provide access to any equipment.

12/9/2005 8:09:51 PM
As much as I hate repeating Myself.. consider this a public service announcement.


If you/slave/sub/ whatever, are seriously seeking to become My property and do not follow the directions in My profile. you are not worthy.
10/25/2005 6:46:43 PM
Only emails with "formal letters of introduction" will receive a response.
10/24/2005 11:18:20 PM
I will be in Omaha, Nebraska 11/4-11/8. Email Me in advanced to schedule appointments.
10/12/2005 7:36:55 PM
Let Me restate this.  I'm a stickler for protocol.  Emails that say "hey wanna chat" wont work for me.  Neither will " hey your hot, wanna do me?" 

If you are interested in serving Me, send a letter of introduction.  That is a letter that tells me about you, your hobbies, interests, how you got into this lifestyle, how your servitude would benefit Me etc....
10/11/2005 8:26:42 PM
The life of a Mistress, a new home, a new car, a new boy. Life is good.
7/7/2005 10:03:58 PM
Tell me, since when does "Hey I wanna talk to you, hit me up", pass for an acceptable way to introduce your submissive self to a Domina.  Emails of that nature will not recieve a response.
princesshollywoo
 
 Age: 20
 West jordan, Utah