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Hetero Male Master, 21,  Wichita, Kansas
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I am a dominant.  I can say that after years of careful consideration and thought.  Not that it needed thought to be dominant, but it needed thought for me to be able to say that with some assurance as to its truth.

Of course, what does it mean to be dominant?  Am I one of these neolithic hunter gatherer types who sees you as an object?  No.

I am a human being, and, with every fiber of my being I will expect you to be just as much of a human being.

I do not want a slave, an object, or a toy.  I am not looking for someone to complete me.  I am not looking to complete you either.

If we are to converse I expect thoughts, desires, emotions, and the capability to express these intelligently.

Numbers should never be substituted for letters in the course of conversation.

Sex is nice, sex is good, but this hardly what we are all about.  There are many ways to experience and share yourself with someone of interest, and unless you're terribly fascinating and live in Wichita, Kansas, I imagine we'll be exploring what those ways are.

Perversion is fascinating.  Terribly fascinating, once you get right down to the heart of it, it actually stops being perversion at all.  You can break down the lenses of specific interpretation.  Strip away the shackles of symbolism and then apply your own free associations.

I'm curious to learn what your are.











Last Online:


 Dominant Male



 5' 9"

 145 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Dominant Female

Submissive Female

Switch Women

Online Romance

 Lives For:

 Art Galleries

 Coffee Shops  (Expert)

 Volunteerism (Expert)

 Anal Play

 Historical Shows (Expert)

 Science Fiction (Expert)

 Web Surfing (Expert)

 Drawing (Expert)

 Intellectual Discourse (Expert)



 Alternative Music


 Folk Music


 Movies (Expert)


 Body Worship

 Breast Play

 Canes and Crops




 Massage (Getting)

 Mental Bondage

 Pantyhose Fetish

 Role Playing (Expert)





 Comedy Shows (Expert)

 Cybering (Expert)


 Painting (Expert)


 Liberal Politics


 Political Activism


 Lifestyle BDSM



 Hip Hop Music


 Punk Rock Music


 Bar Hopping

 Fine Dining

 Flea Markets

 Garage Sales

 Renaissance Faires





 Hair Pulling


 Cartoons (Expert)

 True Crime

 Art Collecting

 Blue Grass

 Industrial Music


 Nineties Music

 Rock Music


 Going to the Opera

 Musical Theater

 Obedience Training


 Orgasm Denial


 Nihilism (Expert)

 Goth Lifestyle (Expert)

 Classical Music

 Country Music

 Eighties Music

 Heavy Metal Music

 New Wave

 Opera Music



 Seventies Music

 Show Tunes

 Curious About:


 Bondage (Beginner)



 Electrical Play


 Local BDSM Community (Beginner)


 Gas Masks

 Housework Service

 Rubber Fetish



 Wax play







 Libertarian Politics

 New Age Music

 Pop Music



 Hard Limits:

 EMO Music

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Journal Entries:
9/14/2007 11:32:02 AM
This has been an interesting experience.

I've had several fairly basic conversations with some people, but still feel dissapointed in the basic variety and interest of those out here.

It would be lovely to meet someone with a genuine sense of self, and a commitment personal integrity in their search for who they are.  One cannot give of themself if they have no self to give.

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