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I am not looking for someone to complete my incompleteness. Rather I am looking for someone like myself, but it doesn't mean I expect that person to be my clone and agree eye to eye with me on everything. It is not possible! People have differences that naturally exist in their backgrounds, likes, dislikes, different beliefs.
That is why I think its extremely important to have good relationship skills: how you handle differences, how you communicate and problem-solve. I try to have a solution-oriented approach to life, but unfortunately many people choose to consentrate on problems, not solutions, people choose to look back, to leave in their past where pain and problems resides.
I m looking for somebody who is open and undefended, and is willing to be vulnerable sometimes, approachable and receptive to feedback without being overly sensitive about any topic.... somebody who is willing to be forthright in expressing feelings, thoughts, dreams and desires. It includes an interest in personal and sexual development.
I m looking for a man who realizes the important of honesty in a close relationship
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I am not looking for someone to complete my incompleteness. Rather I am looking for someone like myself, but it doesn't mean I expect that person to be my clone and agree eye to eye with me on everything. It is not possible! People have differences that naturally exist in their backgrounds, likes, dislikes, different beliefs.
That is why I think its extremely important to have good relationship skills: how you handle differences, how you communicate and problem-solve. I try to have a solution-oriented approach to life, but unfortunately many people choose to consentrate on problems, not solutions, people choose to look back, to leave in their past where pain and problems resides.
I m looking for somebody who is open and undefended, and is willing to be vulnerable sometimes, approachable and receptive to feedback without being overly sensitive about any topic.... somebody who is willing to be forthright in expressing feelings, thoughts, dreams and desires. It includes an interest in personal and sexual development.
I m looking for a man who realizes the important of honesty in a close relationship.
I think partners should feel congenial toward and supportive of one another overall goals in life. They are sensitive to the other wants, desires and feelings, and place them on an equal basis with their own. Ideal partners treat each other with respect and sensitivity. They do not try to control each other with threatening or manipulative behavior. They are respectful of one another distinct personal boundaries while at the same time, being close physically and emotionally.
When a couple understands each other, they become aware of the commonalities that exist between them and also recognize and appreciate the differences.
I value a good sense of humor, I love to laugh:) it can be a lifesaver in a relationship.
Besides, it always feels good to have fun with someone |
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