I am interested in entering into a long term relationship where I fulfill the needs of a dominant woman. I have known for a while now that I am submissive but it has only been in the last year that the comprehension of my submissiveness has come to fruition. I would also consider something long term with a couple.

This is profile is a work in progress. I have pictures but prefer not to post them to my account, but I will happily provide them via e-mail.

My desire to assist the woman in my life is more than sexual. I would like to find a partner with whom I can devote myself entirely and forge a union of compassion, trust, and love.

I am interested in a situation that involves chastity at least to some degree. I embarked upon a brief foray with chastity devices in a previous relationship and enjoyed the experience immensely. My chastity would be determined by the person I submitted to, but I am open to various lengths of time in a device.

Ideally I am here to meet someone who shares similar interests (both in and out of the bedroom) and establish a worthwhile relationship.

Aside from the play activities listed to the left of this profile I enjoy the following:

Writing, sarcasm (I have been accused of having this and love it in others), painting, animals (especially cats), bicycle riding, movie watching, video gaming, role playing, miniature gaming. I pretty much have interests that run the gamut of geek related activities.

Bonus points for figuring out why my handle is what it is.

Double bonus points if you have actually read anything by that person.

I am in graduate school which is rewarding but can also be its own special hell.

If any of the above sounds interesting to you please feel free to contact me.

I am not really one for playing the role of sub with a complete stranger. I pride myself on being polite and courteous at all times, and will be with anyone who contacts me. However I wouldn’t feel comfortable calling you “mistress,” “miss,” “goddess,” or any of the other plethora monikers associated with this lifestyle. That is not to say that I would be unwilling to do that with someone to whom I submitted. I just don’t think it is appropriate between strangers. So if that bothers you we might not be the right fit.

I am very serious about finding someone who will let me be the person I desire to be, and that is definitely a submissive. Maybe that person is on here?