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| I am a caring man, a responsible humane person. I have been involved in this life since I was a teen. I am a kind man. I could not live in this life without humor and fun.
I am enormously experienced in this life's intricies, mores and nuances.
I list myself as a sadist rather than a Dom (or a Daddy Dom) merely to distance myself from the fakery and ignorance the majority of so-called "Dom"s who seem to populate these sites.
I am semi-retired & now living most of the year close to but outside of Kansas City. Though I grew up in Kansas City and have a wide aquaintanceship here I do not know many Kansas City people involved in our life. I spent my entire adult life on the coasts (NYC,LA,Berkeley) where I correctly predicted my educational, artistic, sexual and professional ambitions would find more fertile ground.
I live alone in a large old house my 3rd great grandfather had built in the 19th C. I have had it restored and equipped to my rather louche tastes. The fussy Victoriana has been replaced with comfortable, slightly decadent furnishings and equipment in keeping with the Victorian period of the house and my esthetic sensibilities. Indeed, my culinary and sexual needs & desires.
I live a life of the mind ...I read, paint, invest, research, write, edit & add to my various journals. I do some garden design, draw, maintain and neglect my culinary herb garden. I cook and entertain some (given one considers a flexible level of S&M entertaining.)
I carry on a significant correspondence with friends and asociates from all over via text, e-mail, fax, telephone, UPS, Fedex, and the US Mail system.
I have lost both parents and my three sibling due to usual trials and misfortunes of the 20th & 21st Century. I am & remain optimistic and positive.
So, here I am married & divorced a couple times-no kids-alone in the world............happy at last.
Before anything, there must be a real attraction, an authentic affection. Trust implicit and explicit must precede any session with me.
Still, having said that, I am something of true a sadist. Certainly, a severe and controling Master, with room devoted to equipment and intruments for the infliction of exqusite pain. Any woman who is admitted into this world of prolonged sub-space or overwhelming erotic ecastasy is special to me. I must find and desire in that specific woman only that which I determine is beneficial for us both.
Perforce I insist on the inclusion of a loving application of soothing, curative, medicaments and antiseptic lotions. Aftercare is essential, whether it involves more pain, more sex or more care. Safety and caring attention is an absolute ingredient of the S&M experience under my auspices, at my guidence and under my supervision.
And though I could be easily clasified as an overeducated bore, I am surprisingly socialized. Fun in bed and fun to hang out with.
Do not hesitate to interrupt me and my busy, most often focussed life.
Easy
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