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looking to meet people in the lifestyle for friendships or possible "friendly" encounters.... im basically a straight man that likes to be abused from time to time.. im not looking for sex.. ill say it again, im not looking for sex.. i can get that enough when i want it.. i would ideally like to find female Dommes or Switches that would go to a fetish party with and even on occasion use me for fun.. interests are:

Trampling, groin kicking, whipping, face slapping, face sitting, kneeing, choking, boot/heel/foot worship, massages, latex and leather, cbt, electro play and a lil more..

dislikes: transgendered, ass play, dildos, anything to do with another man in a submissive or touching manner...

im me and going to stay that way... ill submit to one when the times right but in the meantime im a man and enjoy being one.. theres a time to be submissive and a time to step up and be a man ... if any of this interests you then please respond and also be honest in what your looking for...

ADVICE for pro-dommes... listen... to each their own and i respect everyones fetish and background... BUT if your accepting payment for a session then you are providing a "Service" for the sub male or female and thus please listen and do your best to adhere to their fetishes.. i get messages from dommes all the time asking me for money or to have a session with them... thank you but the pros ive been to in the past just did their own thing and did not play to my wishes that "i paid for".. thus never seeing me again as a client..

im sure some dommes will see this and say im not submissive or dont know about the lifestyle and again "whatever".. if i meet a domme that i would like to serve then ill do her bidding day and night but if im paying for it hourly then i better get what i paid for..

thats all, i mean no disrespect.. i wish everyone well with their search and happiness to everryone.. peace
4/28/2008 8:11:22 PM
Hello again.. just wanted to let someone know my recent "session".. basically about 6 months ago i was in Texas and called a Masseuse to come over to give me a massage.. now this was a real masseuse not an escort or anything.. she had the table, the towels and everything.. well while giving the massage she noted some marks on my back and asked them what they were.. usually i would mislead and avoid but i actually told her the truth that dominatrixes walked on my back.. she was amazed and we talked for hours about the lifestyle... well, we have talked over the last few months and i set her up a collarme profile .. since then she has met many subs and slaves and has conducted many sessions.. so she came to my hotel and we had a "session" .. it was the best session i have ever had... HONEST ... she knew every fetish i had and she did them.. she walked on me, smacked me, cbt, boot worship, teasing, and more.. she basically catered to my fetishes and i loved it.. i loved the session so much i paid her for her time and she was my friend.. she has come along what since then and still has much to learn in the scene but she loves it so much that she listens and learns... amazing.. i will definately see her again and would love to pay her... it was great... just to let you dommes out there know.. if your pro, then cater to the sub..
4/11/2008 8:39:52 AM
Well I guess some "Dommes" have taken offense to what I have wrote in my profile. I've recieved messages saying "im not a real sub" and "if your a sub you should do whatever the Mistress wants" and so forth... i had one "Domme" email me and tell me that "she believes in what i said" and that I could serve her, however I must send tribute first "to prove my loyalty".... the another "Domme" wrote to me and told me to look at her wishlist and send her somehting to cheer her up... now ive never spoken to this woman in my life and she emails me out of the blue asking for something..

Ladies, please.. I love Dominant Women and hopefully would like to find one one day to serve... however, if you truly believe that men owe you something or should just give you money because you say your dominant or are a dominatrix then you wont stay in this lifestyle long.. to those "real dommes" out there.. keep doing your thing and i appreciate you for being real... its a new day and age now where women are watching too much "Sunset Tan" and "the Hills" and reading "Ok" and think because there beautiful they should just get shit.. God help us..

to everyone in the lifestyle be true to yourselves and if it pleases you to serve then do so because your happy making a Domme happy... however dont let these "financial dommes" fool you...