Well Im 41,male, divorced and looking for a playmate (female) for fun times, but more than just fuck buddies. Looking for people between 30 and 45 years of age. Non smoker please.
If you have MSN looking43linda@hotmail
(I love the song looking for linda)
MORE ABOUT ME.
I am tall,slim, monogamous, professional person and easy to get on with. I believe in being open and honest in a relationship. From there trust and commitment can grow. I believe in living in the here and now. Each moment has value, is a gift - I certainly don't always see that at the time but each is a step in my dance through life. I'm delighted when I get memos so if you want to make me smile don't hang back.
I have a property bussines,I'm not concerned with fashion or proving myself. I am interested in people. From this I derive much joy though sometimes deep dispair. I have looked for a partner that is prepared to commit, knows her own mind and is open to new adventures. I know this is demanding.
My list of 'interests' is just that and not a 'must have' list, and vanilla interests are important as is the mutual fun factor. I am careful about safety and personal discipline is important to me.
Vanilla life is a significant factor. I like the outdoors, mountains, sunsets over seas, grass under my feet. Red wine and endless cups of tea, cooking and music and art. I enjoy 'making' and like to employ my imagination to realise BDSM equipment (as well as more mundane items).
I like the rhythm of the cane and crop or flogger as well as improvised items. I enjoy spontaneous and adventurous play, role play and school room fun.
I believe that people involved in D/s relationships should develop an honest and intimate knowledge of each other based on mutual respect and equality and this I am prepared to take time developing.
My friends would describe me as intelligent, fun, whitty, charming, have a good attitude to life. Im more of a half full glass than a half empty one. What you see is what you get with me, no pretences. I like doing the usual things, cinema, theatre, pubs etc but love 'playing'. I like doing things on the spur of the moment and will try most things at least once! Im sensuous and can be very entertaining!!! x
