In a Polyamerous marriage. Not really looking for anything more then friends, but don't let that discourage you from saying hello. I currently have a girlfriend outside of my wife who's role is largely that of a close friend I go out and buy groceries with.

    I'm an 'assertive sub' house-husband that's mostly vanilla. I like to be ordered around sometimes, but have a laundry list of hard limits that basically comes down to me not really getting off on pain. If that doesn't sit well with you too bad, there is lots of Bondage/Domination/Submission stuff that doesn't require *Sadism* or *Masochism*. 

    Other then that I'm a pretty huge dork/geek. I like board games, sometimes play with transformers, and read comic books.