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I saw someone's journal entry and typed this up, but decided it'd make a better journal entry than email, so here it is:

I wonder why you feel qualified to decide who is and isn't a 'True Dom'.  It seems like the no true Scotsman fallacy.  

Obviously if you're not interested in what they want, those people are a terrible match or you.  However, to say they aren't 'true doms' because they don't fit your needs is the same as their saying you're not a true submissive because you don't fit theirs.  It's equally silly in either direction.

This is my favorite sequence of events: 

(1) Talk to someone.

(2) Interest all around.

(3) They disappear and block me.

Now, if you're just here to talk dirty and have a good time, fine.  However, don't waste my time if that's your thing.  When you're specifically asked if you're looking for real life or chat, and you lie, that's the point where you become an asshole. 

Maybe you don't see others as people, maybe you don't think it's a big deal that you do this.  Either way, you are wrong.  You are part of a chain of lying time-wasters contributing to making the world a worse place.  Congratulations.

This isn't meant to cover people who are serious but don't match up, that's no big deal.  I am not a match for everyone and a lack of interest in me does not make you a fake or an asshole.   What makes you one of those is deceit and disregard for others.