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The first thing I notice and appreciate, be it in a submissive or a slave, is manners. Politeness. An appropriate way of speaking and communicating, as befits her position. Know your place, and speak with manners. That's the first important thing to note. I tend to find that most women on this site are engaging in a sort of fantasy whereby they get to express the feelings they have about being taken, controlled, told what to do and how to do it, having their lives directed and structured by some other, a "Dominant" man in their lives. However, this is not reality for them and they are not willing to explore or take the leap to see something like this manifest in their real life. There is such a huge gap between fantasy and the reality they are living that it cannot be reconciled. Thus, there is a schism. And this becomes online fantasy play for whenever they are feeling horny. Which is fine, if that's all you want and don't really have any expectation of living your life to the fullest, and experiencing real joy and lasting fulfillment in life. I have met a rare few females who indeed did have this yearning, this deep inborn desire to please that they were living this in their real life, in their beings, and expressing it in every moment of every day. I realize that for the majority of women in our culture, this is a terrifying proposition -- to lose control and not be "in charge", to have someone else control you and dominate you and direct you -- but it is only when you let go, and you are in free fall, in total surrender and submission, that you experience the bliss that you are so desperately seeking, and without which you are so miserable and unfulfilled.
12/21/2014 12:54:15 AM
It's a sorry state of affairs, but the patronage on this site has really declined in quality.
6/30/2013 12:07:04 PM
There used to be a time when women honored the men in their lives by serving them and being submissive to them. It was an expression of their heart and their love. Today, "1950s Household" is listed as a fetish on a kink website.
12/6/2012 3:39:32 PM

If you are a slave seeking ownership, please be articulate and mindful of manners in your communication.  It is important to present yourself in a good light.  Show how well you have been trained, show that you have what it takes to be a slave who can please, a slave that an Owner would be interested in acquiring and keeping.  Also, please do mention what you bring to the table: why should an Owner take an interest in you?  WHat skills, abilities, or proficiency do you have that other slaves do not?  Make a compelling case, and then perhaps you will be rewarded with an Owners genuine interest in you.

controlme2014
 
 Age: 20
 Glendale, California