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I am seeking a sub with slave tendancies or a slave. To define what I mean is simply this. Once we have agreed upon limits, the limits will be respected. Everything else will be expected to be complied with without debate or discussion. I am not stating that they will not have input on important decisions. I am stating, that communication up front such that each knows the others expectations, desires, needs are well defined and is REQUIRED!
I am ok with single moms. I have children of my own. You must be able to be discreet in vanilla situations.
You must be serious.
You must be honest.
You must be seeking a live in situation.
You must have the security and self confidence in yourself to truly handle a relationship such as this.
You must be a non-smoker, or plan on quitting.
D&D free.
As you can see, I do not have a picture. One is available when I believe the discussion is at a point it merits my sharing it. I have to maintain a level of discresion because of my kids and employment. If you can not respect my need for discretion then you will not be able to provide me with the respect I deserve or expect. All those who expect a photo before they will chat, is obviously seeking kinky sex, D/s is much more than that. Do not try and mask your want for kinky sex under some false statements that imply you want a relationship, when your top requirements are those of weight, looks, etc. It is very unattractive. It demonstrates how nieve you really are.
I am still amazed at what subs and slaves demand in their profiles and claim to be a real submissive and not here for kinky sex. So I feel it necessary to comment to those so nieve.
Why do you not just say I want a perfect Dominant? Surely, if you make a statement like, "How can you be in control of me if you are not in control of your own body" But I note, that in these profiles, they do not say, financially secure, I mean come on, don't you think they should be in control of their money too? How about can hold a job, I don't see those profiles say that either. Seams to me, if they claim to be a true submissive, and then tailor to list to things only relevant to how their body looks, seams clear to me they are just after sex. All people, dominants included have flaws, so guess what, you wont find perfect, you will find a dom with flaws, and I guess you would rather have one that would make you do things with animals or kids, rather than a fat one that treats you right. Because I do not see that in your list either.
Oh, and just to make my point more clear, I want to reverse the comment. And please, subs do not take offense by this. I am offended by the subs that don't come out and say they just want sex, and claim they want to be a sub and serve when that is not the truth it is only sexual to them. But if I were to reverse it, how about I say, no overweight sub is worthy, because they posses no self control. If they can not do what they likely want to do, how are they ever going to do something for their dom they dont want to do. See my point? I hope other subs are not offended by my making issue of the fake submissives online after sex and proclaim they want something more. Guess what, a person that makes weight an issue has their motives in the wrong place, and by such are quite UGLY! Because what is inside is a selfish person. And anyone knows a true submissive is not selfish. Let me find an area you have personal issues with, and make a comment about how you are not worthy of my time, because you are .... Remember you are not perfect either. I hope in reading this, that some of you become honest with yourself and what you want. And begin to act it and state it.
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