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Hetero Male Master, 61,  Connecticut
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 Dominant Male







Actively Seeking:

Submissive Transgender

Submissive Female

Switch Women

Sub/Sub Couples

Friends Only


A Poly Household







 Bar Hopping


 Hip Hop Music


Edited 12/11/11 because some of you find this too scary. There is no need to be afraid unless you want to be. If you are just curious, that is OK - you are welcome to ask questions. No married women playing without spouse's approval unless you can get away with out constant interruptions during play, and can schedule time that is convenient for me (ie., not weekday mornings or afternoons). New profile, but not a newcomer - I have decades of experience. I am sane, careful, and play hard but safely. I am strict, but caring of my slave's needs and wellbeing. I am seeking an extremely submissive female slave pain and humiliation slut, experienced or willing to learn. While occasional "play" may be considered, I seek eventual total ownership.  The ideal candidate will desire a lifestyle of total control 24/7/365. There will be consideration for family, work, etc., but escape will be impossible, with release from slavery only possible through permitted open discussion. you will have no rights - only those privileges that you earn. I will not send you funds to relocate - not because I can't, but because I expect you to prove your sincerity. Once here, I will care for you, protect you, and provide for you as necessary as a piece of property, but you will be expected to contribute to your maintenance, either with a job or the sale of your services or photos/videos. etc. your value as property will be determined by your usefulness and your dedication. Duties will include domestic service, errands, chauffeuring and sexual servitude, including being shared with whomever I choose for whatever purpose I choose. you will need appropriate uniforms for some duties. Sometimes you will share my bed, most often in restraints, and sometimes you will be caged.  There is some room for negotiation, but once you are committed, any further negotiation, or a request for dismissal, will come at prenegotiated intervals, which will include discussions about your needs and their being met, as over time they may change. you can ease your way into this - it all doesn't need to come down on you all at once. Hard limits will be respected, but other than scat, vomit, and anything illegal, they are subject to at least some minimal exploration. I will take it easy on novices or someone with a low tolerance for pain, but those limits will be explored, and over time, expanded at a comfortable pace. The purpose of the pain and humiliation, while unable to resist it, besides my entertainment in playing with your body and your mind, is to be a reminder of who is in control. I will hurt you, but I will not harm or damage you. There is a fine line between pleasure and pain, and the two will be blurred until they become one. I am adept at the psychodrama that enhances your submission, and setting the mood to maximize your "subspace".  you should crave pain, and tolerate humiliation, administered for training, punishment, or just for My amusement. you may have limits, but they will be pushed and expanded. you don't need a safeword, because you will learn to trust me to know when I've reached your tolerance. you will scream into your gag, and you will cry - real tears. your body may be welted and bruised - your ass in particular. The marks will indeed heal, but there may be fresh ones to replace them. Some may show, but you will display them with the pride of ownership. you will be kept in chastity. Any sexual release, if ever, will be an earned reward, either for good behavior or for endurance.  you will be humiliated and sometimes degraded - privately and often publicly. There will also be times when you will be expected to look and act like a lady, even during clandestine activities, such as taking you as "arm candy" to a vanilla event with a large insertion or a spiked bra to keep you ever mindful of your place.  I occasionally crossdress. If you can't tolerate that, then it will be hidden from you. you could be kept blindfolded or hooded, or caged or confined, so as not to be able to see me when I do it. Otherwise, if you are open to it, you could be of use in maintaining and enhancing my appearance. An expertise in makeup is a plus.  To qualify for this position, you must agree to all of the above. you must be reasonably healthy and D&D free. Age, race, beauty, etc. are not important - the sincere desire to become a real slave is. This is not about the superficial or shallow interests of serving a handsome hung young stud - it IS all about the Total Power Exchange and what's in the mind, between the ears - not the eyes. TS are also welcome to apply, but you must be currently living transitioned full time, unquestioningly passable, with breasts and functioning equipment of either gender. The expense and maintenance of your transition is yours to bear. I do NOT want a person who appears to be just a man in a dress. I rarely initiate contact. There is a simple reason for this. The women on this site continually complain about the rudeness of the men. The fact is, the women are just as rude. I get tired of writing a polite message, only to either get no response, not even a "Thank you but not interested", or worse - "deleted unread". If you don't have any common courtesy, or the manners your mother should have taught you, there is no place for you in My life. So, it is up to you to contact me, and you are welcome to ask questions. 

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Journal Entries:
12/25/2012 1:36:09 AM

Merry Christmas to all!

12/25/2012 1:35:25 AM

For those of you who find My profile scary, My last slave recently called Me a "teddy bear".

11/22/2012 5:36:28 AM

To the mass media, busy brainwashing our younger generations, today is "Turkey Day". To me, it's Thanksgiving Day, a day to ponder everything I have to be thankful for. It starts with family and friends, and there is so much more. Everyone can find someone or something besides a sale event.

11/20/2012 4:32:25 PM

Someone in Tennessee needs a brain transplant. Send two messages of stupidity then block me. How mature. she has been searching for a while, apparently to find a Dominant to support her. It's no wonder the search is fruitless.

10/18/2012 5:57:25 PM

"If you love something, let it go. If it loves you, it will come back to you."  (Author unknown)

10/14/2012 12:22:27 PM

"Oh doctor, oh doctor, please help me...There's a hole where there once was a heart..." Owners can have feelings too.

10/12/2012 8:26:16 PM

The part-time slave has been released and dismissed, her earned collar revoked.

4/3/2012 7:40:37 PM

Time to thin out the herd. Several weeks ago I was in contact with "pixxies" here on this site. A date was set for her to meet me and my slavegirl. pixxies was "no call - no show'. I wrote her off. A couple of days ago, she began messaging my slave again to set up a date again for this week. Normally I do not give second chances, but this time I did only for my slavegirl's benefit. my slavegirl has been a great pleasure to me and deserves a reward. They exchanged cell numbers last night, and this morning my slavegirl sent pixxies a "good morning" message. The response was:


"I don't know who the fuck you are but if you ever text my wife again we're going to have a problem."


Red flags on this one! 

2/5/2012 8:24:15 AM

slavegirl had her second session with me last Friday. she has many years experience with a submissive mindset, but very little experience with BDSM, and has never before ventured into "subspace". she has a great thirst for more. I am beginning her training regime with protocol, discipline, and her acceptance of whatever else I do to hurt and humiliate her. she likes her subspace. she is an excellent student and is well on her way to earning her collar. she is now ready for 3some activity, particularly with another woman. she has earned it. she has become a treasured pet.

2/2/2012 10:00:44 PM

a slavegirl is Under Consideration, in training to become a no limits painslut for p/t use. I would like a bi or lez woman, Domme or sub, to help broaden her horizons.

11/27/2011 6:56:10 AM

You know, there is are at least three other websites where the profile names of the fakers and posers on this site can be listed by name. It's time for you idiots to wise up. Actually, it's "time to thin out the herd".

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