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A Top is for tonight, a Dominant is for as long as she is submissive, a Master is there until she is no longer a slave, but a Daddy is forever.
The Daddy Dom + Babygirl Dynamic
Disclosure:
Before I sink my teeth into this explanation, understand that this is the dynamic that I am looking for. This is what babygirl and Daddy Dom mean to me. If I speak of ?regular Doms? I am generalizing and do not believe that all Doms that do not call themselves Daddy are the same nor do I believe that everyone that calls themselves Daddy is what you are looking for. The same logic applies to a babygirl. As with everything in BDSM, it all depends on each individual person.
Okay? Go.
The kind of babygirl I want:
The first thing for me to address is what she is not. This is in no way an incestuous relationship and does not pertain to children in anyway. She is not envisioning me as her actual father. She is also not a ?little? and does not regress to a younger age. She does not speak like a child. She does not wear diapers. She is not an adult baby. To each their own, but not my thing.
She is also not an it, a thing, a slave, a mindless fuck toy that has no opinion, or someone that will pretend to be less than she is in an attempt to make someone else feel better about themselves. She is not a doormat or anything else one might want to wipe their feet on. She does not want to be beat or abused, humiliated or degraded (but punishments should be expected and needed to maintain the dynamic and I?m all for calling her a few naughty names during sex).
What she is: A strong-willed, independent, stubborn, woman with a higher than average IQ. Slightly damaged self-esteem with the knowledge that she can do most anything she sets her mind to. She may battle her weight, but I do like a woman with curves in all the right places. She is brave. She will take chances. She has trouble asking for help. She tries to take care of everything by herself and for herself. She is used to being in control in her regular life. She may or may not be a brat on any given day. (What? she is likely sarcastic and quick-witted, like that's not gonna happen?) She is sweet and kind, caring and passionate, loving and loyal. She tries to maintain a positive outlook and find the good in most every situation. She is a princess, a prized possession. And most importantly a force to be reckoned with.
The kind of Daddy Dom I am:
I am waiting for someone that stimulates my mind, body and soul and I the same for her. I need someone to make feel safe and protected. I want to nurture, guide, accept. I?m? a Daddy that is patient and kind, supportive and encouraging, reliable and understanding. Someone with the ability to be strong and firm, but gentle and loving. Reliable, understanding, comforting.
I want to cherish and adore her. I want her submission to bring as much to my life as my dominance brings to hers. I want us both to feel a sense of calm when we are with each other. I want my touch, even my glance, to send a surge through her body. I want to be someone that knows her better than she knows herself and knows what?s best for her. I want her limits tested and boundaries explored. I want her to finally be able to ask for help, turn over control, trust.
I want to be someone that builds her up instead of tearing her down (except when she neds it). I do not judge her for her faults, we work together to make her better. I understand that her insecurities will rear their ugly head sometimes and also know exactly how to get beyond it. I want to be proud of her and her successes and believe that she can do anything. I am the someone that can tame the wild child without completely breaking her spirit. Someone that loves all sides of her, even the sassy brat (especially the sassy brat), and earns the trust very rarely given in a lifetime until she has no other desire but to submit to me and only me. I want her to need to surrender. . . completely.
note: I?m not addressing the sexual or discipline related wants and needs in this entry, but?oh my there are a?plenty.
?If you are intrigued by the profile I have taken the time to create, do not insult me with a canned message. If you can not approach me with a bit more than that, you will receive a canned reply.? Many rant about how few 'real people' there are here, so why approach one with such a pathetic first impression? ?? When I say 'Best of luck with your search', it's a polite way of saying 'not interested' please respect that. ??
Aaaannnnnd...? If you got this far you should be messaging me now it's just that simple.??
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Who would have thought she was actually a hot teasing blonde? The way I see it, its her loss phony or not.
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It’s funny how the people who know the least about you, always have the most to say.. LOL shut the fuck up! |
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I have no need to publicize my events of the evening, but she knows.
Thank you! ;-)
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| Age: 20 |
| Oscoda,
Michigan |
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