First let's get the basics out of the way. I'm secure, fit, successful in my field, educated and experienced. I'm not looking for only BDSM play as that has grown old.

I'm also not looking for a vanilla relationship with some occasional kink in the bedroom. If I wanted that, I would not be here.

Instead, I am seeking the best of both worlds. A relationship built on love, respect and chemistry like any other relationship. But as part of that relationship, I believe in a strong D/s component.

I'm looking for the same in the one that will compliment me. One that will have that spark that makes me want to be with her. I am happy to train her from the start if she is new, or lead an experienced woman in the directions I enjoy.