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| Hello and thanks for visiting :) Before I write more, I must say that I have a great respect for everyone's choices and preferences. I am only writing about my own... To each their own.
First, about me... I'm single and knocking on 40's door. I don't mind that though. I enjoy life and tend to live each day as it were my last, almost to a fault ;) I grew up quickly and experienced enough loss to stay true to that way of life. I have a fun sense of humor and a strong personality at times, especially at work. I love music, especially live. I can enjoy a blues/rock type band at a tiki bar on the water as much as a jazz band in a sophisticated club. I love hearing artists or songs that are new to me as well. I am a sports fanatic (at least on television!), especially football. Almost anything except golf, tennis, and NASCAR... at least I think so :) I am comfortable in many settings. I can put on my team gear and scream with you at a sports gathering, or dress up and be classy in a more refined setting. I truly enjoy both. I also enjoy the outdoors and kayak occasionally. I love watching the moon rise over the ocean or catching a great storm. Reading on the beach is quite peaceful to me. I have a physical job, so on my days off, I tend to relax a bit. But I am open to doing more physical things with you, if you are so inclined.
I am also submissive, though that doesn't completely define me. To me, it isn't all about bondage, spankings, and rough sex. Don't get me wrong, those things are fantastic :-)
But I'm also very loving, caring, supportive, and compassionate. I long to take care of my partner domestically, emotionally, physically, and sexually.
Secondly, about what I'm seeking... I seek an intelligent, creative man that is passionate about more than just sex. Someone strong enough to enjoy my sense of humor and challenge me goes to the top of the list. Someone strong enough to dominate me... Yes, please :) Let's be honest, I'm a decently attractive female with no children, crazy exes, or baggage. I have a job, a vehicle, a place to call home, and I'm a US citizen. I don't need a website to find a casual encounter or a friend with benefits. Although I realize it takes time, I'm ultimately seeking monogamy with a dominant man that will respect me as I respect him. A man that will care for and be supportive of me, as well as provide discipline when I need it... And just for fun when I don't :) I want to find a man that I can respect, and that I feel deserves my submission. I want a man that will push me... mentally, emotionally, sexually. I want a dominant man that brings out a better woman in me as I also compliment him. Not to mention enjoying each other immensely in the mean time:). I tend to have a few walls and protect myself, can you get past them?
Finally, what I'm not... I am not bisexual. I am not into polyamory. I'm not into any extreme play, though I am a bit of a masochist :) I'm not into coming to your house and stripping at your front door before ever having met you (yes, this has been asked of me by more than a few). And while cyber/phone play is great in between seeing each other, I believe meeting in person is the only way. Chemistry cannot be determined by photos or continuous chat.
I know a lot of this will turn off several of you. I'm writing about my needs rather than yours. But, when I find the right man that wants close to what I want, his needs will go to the top of my priority list. It is in my nature. Also, I don't really believe in using titles outside of playing around until we are in some form of a relationship. I don't address everyone that considers themselves dominant as Sir, Master, etc. I reserve that for someone special to me. Please don't be offended if I don't write messages in that format on the first few messages. Yes, I know what I desire, and can be a bit strong minded. But I'm also not one of the women that saw/read 50 shades and decided it would be cool to play around. I've felt submissive tendencies since years before I understood them (as in under 12 years old). When I finally turned them into more than just fantasies, I realized that this is who I am. I cannot suppress it or live without it. I know that I can be an amazing submissive partner to the man that has the patience, intellect, and want for me.
Physically... I'm open to most body types, etc though I do think there has to be a bit of physical attraction just like any relationship. I favor men older than myself. I also prefer a clean cut, professional type look. No offense to anyone, but we all have preferences. If you write to me and send pics and would like some in return, I have plenty and will oblige. I don't post them here though, simply for my protection. Too many crazies!!
I wish you all the best of luck, and while I know this is a shot in the dark I hope that maybe one man will read this, understand, not be offended, and get me off this site :)
I prefer a sharp, witty mind with an amazing imagination to a hard cock with no inspiration any day of the week ;))
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