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Need someone to impress and show off to? We're looking for a female slave for a 24/7 live-in relationship. We're 'old-school': you need to consider yourself a slave-type (not a submissive) and have no dependants. I'm very empathic and not terribly fussy about where a slave is at in their lives when we meet, there is plenty of time to grow closer to each other's ideals (no, I'm not an immovable object, but it's hard to tell sometimes). I read "The Story of 'O'" when I was nine. M/s has always been a part of my sexuality. For me, this is 'normal'.
I'm not interested in slut-types, this is about possession, not sex; I'm monogamous (with you) and won't share you. I'm very competent at rope-work and corseting, controlling people mentally and physically and I enjoy giving deep-throat, anal, whipping and caning. I also make collars and other equipment - and ballet boots amuse me ;-) Owning a slave is like owning a special pillow: without it I don't sleep so well and that has knock-on effects to the rest of my life. Right now, I feel that I have a lot to offer someone, but don't know anyone who is currently in a position to step out of their life and into mine; so I'll hang out here for a while...

You've asked how I would treat you

... and all I can say is that anyone who starts inventing a future to lure you is lacking experience. Time is very long and everything changes constantly. I've always been an owner and know that every girl is different, every mood is different, every environment and occasion. Let me give an example: I met one slave at Warwick castle for a day out. She was 19 and very nervous: she couldn't stop talking! So I found a pebble the size of a flat gob-stopper and put it in her mouth: she couldn't talk, but her slave ego wouldn't let her take it out either! She was effectively publicly gagged :-) When I removed the pebble for lunch, she was far more relaxed and we got on well. That sort of thing happens on the spur of the moment: I can't predict what I'll do, it's not copied from a book, film or web site. I also find that different girls evoke different feelings in me; different interests. Some I like to tie up and show off at a local peer rope workshop; others I like to demonstrate their adoration by going though extreme experiences, just for me; a few have been like over-excited puppies and just want to be played with! Some I like to treat normally... ...until I make a certain signal, when they must snap into an alert, obedient state; many simply change: I take their lives (often completely devastated by others or themselves) and end them. Then I build new lives from scratch. That's rewarding, but not what I'm here for! It amuses me that so many profiles list themselves as a particular thing: 'pain-slut', 'whore', 'bree der', 'pony-girl'. Every girl I've met has changed completely in the first few hours of meeting us: Limits evaporate, trust grows, the past fades and the future is no longer limited to one person's imagination or fantasies. The slave stops being insular and locked in their own world. They have to face their fantasies as they suddenly queue up to become reality. For some this is an unexpectedly difficult time. Imagine what it's like to suddenly find someone is capable of making all your fantasies come true, and that all the things about yourself that you thought were special and different, they consider normal, because they have decades of experience of girls just like you. You can see that that is not always a good thing! You may want to avoid owners who are smart-arses, 'nobody likes a smart-arse'. My approach of just taking each slave, each moment, each event as it comes, suits me well. I will not tell you how we'd treat you if we owned you, beyond saying that it would be, 'appropriately'.

Master/slave:

In the mirror I have no reflection. Nor do you. We are opposites. We are each other's reflection. Together we are natural, but fragile. The glass is trust. It breaks just once. I've been using this 'mirror analogy' in emails and forum posts for decades and decided to try to make it succinct so that I didn't have to keep typing it in!
Serenityseeker
 
 Age: 25
 Derbyshire, United Kingdom