I read that the subs and slave are frustrated about Doms and Dommes are not censer and real.  But when you search this site and find a name that peaks your interest, you read their profile that they have set up, and view the pictures that they say is them and that they are real, then why is it that when you send messages in a polite manner, a confident manner, not a rude manner, that you get a harsh or rude comment in return?  Or better yet, you DO strike up a conversation and chat for a while to be asked to move to another medium like yahoo to continue in private.  That turns into something long and conversational just to end rude and to come back to CM with them either not on here at all or they have blocked you.  Could someone send a message to me explaining that behavior to me?

You know ..... The whole " Dominate / Switch" thing with 19-22 year olds, with "Years of Experience" amazes me.  How experience are they?  Who taught them and if not, where did they learn "all those years" of experience?

Could some of you enlighten me on how that has occurred in this reality?

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What is up with subs who have one picture of someone else and have messages in their profile that state how rude and nasty others are asking if that is THEIR picture posted?  If you are a submissive or offering to be a slave, POST YOUR picture in the profile.  Your choice if you want to add a nude or not.  Stop your bellyaching about others asking.

So explain to me this:

Why is it that a submissive or slave or partner of one contacts you and asks to be your sub/slave/trainer and then will never answer you again or blocks you even when you are being respectful and genuine??

What is wrong with this site!  I keep reading from subs and slaves that the Doms and Dommes are not real or censer but what about the subs too?