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A wise man once said "Correction hurts, but not having it in your life hurts even more."
There is a part of me that needs to please and be found pleasing. I do best when I am obedient, and can truly be an asset in a man's life. There are days when I flounder without direction from One who matters. This is not a game or a kink for me. I am not sure anyone here will truly understand, but I hope there is at least One.
Please also be unmarried and unencumbered. I like things uncomplicated, and drama free.
I am looking for someone who has a space and time in their life, along with the desire, for a companion. I am looking for a life partner, in real time.
We do not have to move quickly, but we need to be going the same direction.
I am a very talented girl, with a deep seated need to please the right man. If You are comfortable in Your role as HOH and leader in our relationship, please introduce Yourself. Please be ready to speak by phone fairly early on, and be willing to meet in real time within a reasonable amount of time, as I am not interested in investing tons of time and energy online only to learn there is no chemistry in real time, or worse yet, that I have been played. I am not pushy, but I AM real, and seek the same. I simply need to know that You mean what You say.
Pictures and honest conversation available upon request.
Relocation is entirely possible for the right man.
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I am not seeking to avoid becomming the "submissive" or "slave" of a man because I am afraid, or too much of a handful to yield in these ways. I seek a different dynamic because I have been down both roads before, and found that they did not address all of who I am as a woman.
For three years I lived enslaved to a man, in a live-in 24/7 very demanding dynamic. Parts of the dynamic worked for me very well. Parts of it were uncomfortable, and not to my liking, but still were good for me. I am not saying I was damaged by a life of service to another, quite the contrary.
It was something I needed to try, to see how far I could yield, and how vulnerable I could allow myself to become. I am not ashamed of my experience, nor am I bitter. I merely know that more is out there, and if I am allowed more freedoms to express who I am as a person, and not expected to fit into a man's limited definition of a girl, there is more beauty, comfort, and happiness to occur in my next relationship.
It is not that I wish to be unruly, or to not accomodate a man's fantasies. It is that I seek a different kind of man... the kind of man who realizes every girl is different, and finds the beauty and value of her as an individual, not merely as an object, or one of his possessions. |
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I am a one man woman. Period. I respect there are other ways of doing things, and judge no one, but I know myself. What works for me is to make ONE MAN exceedingly happy.
This means I am NOT doing your friends, I am NOT making the pizza delivery guy's night, and I am NOT interacting with women for their pleasure nor yours.
The right man for me does not need other people in our relationship to be content. He finds value in the interactions, admiration, affection and pamperings of just one girl. His girl. THIS is the kind of man I seek. |
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I am burning out fast on lifestyle sites... Maybe it's not a "Dominant" per se, that I am seeking. (It certainly isn't someone who expects to be called Master!) It's just a man who is naturally dominant, and comfortable in his role as a leader, that I hope to find.
I do not want to be an object, nor for it to be an option for a man to dismiss me from a room, or from his bed, at a whim. If I give my everything, I want to BE his everything. I want a real, full time life with a man that wants more from me than service.
It is not that I am unable or unwilling to provide service, because part of me thrives taking amazing care of a man. But I also want romance. I want to hold hands. I want to be free to gaze into his eyes whenever I need to, or simply because I can not take my eyes off him in that moment. I want to be kissed often and well. I want to be free to express my affection for him, without some preconceived notion that it might be inappropriate, or not allowed because it is not my place.
This is not to say I do not need to be taken in hand, and sometimes firmly, because that is also part of who I am, but it is only a PART. It's at the core of me to yield. To be disciplined by a loving man works well with me, but it is so far from the whole picture of who I am. |
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It is one thing to be submissive and needing to please because of my nature, and another to be "a submissive" in the lifestyle when it pleases me.
If you can not communicate in an email about DD, or LDD, please do not waste my time, or yours.
I am looking for the connection I need, with one man, who is capable of changing my behaviors when needed. I am not a girl with a spanking fetish. This is about behavior modification.
I am just a girl who knows she must answer to one man, who holds her in place and together... |
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| Age: 21 |
| Newcastle,
United Kingdom |
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