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Please note: LTR-seekers, only—no hookups/casual sex seekers; and I am not seeking play partners.
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Nous
Ebullient, affectionate, highly intelligent and creative, passionate and compassionate—this is you, as am I.
We dream of a lifelong, loving partnership, in which we are companions who share authentic, open communication and trust, and delight in one another through deeply physical passion.
We carry gracious confidence in ourselves and in each other; and yet are not afraid to be wide open and vulnerable with each other—and sometimes even silly (gotta let go, now and then, eh?).
We take reasonable care of ourselves and each other emotionally, physically, and financially.
We are happy, highly intelligent, creative thinkers; we bring out of one another a certain warmth from our bellies, and a mischievous twinkle in our eyes.
Moi
I am a singer and composer, a visual artist and graphic designer, and a bit of a polyglot. Multifaceted, highly intelligent, creative, enthusiastic—I feed both sides of my brain. Happy in life, comfortable in my own skin, I cultivate honest, authentic connections. I create and hold safe space, and I am easily coaxed to laughter.
I am drawn to kink not only for sensation and dynamics play, but also for the community: to wit, I am cofounder of Bay Area Kinky Business Alliance (bakba.org) and one of the organizers of the amazing kinky camping/workshops retreat, Boundless (boundlessevents.org).
I am a switch who is far more interested in expressing my sub side, these days, although I still occasionally like to do the tying and flogging. I don’t serve, and I shan’t be owned; but if you should win my heart, I will gladly cook you lovely meals, give you soothing massages, and be present and wide open to you in mind, body, and spirit. That said, I do seek and encourage your firm, Domly nature—just understand that you’ll make me fall to my knees, not merely by your command, but because we have earned each other’s trust and love, and because every time I hear your voice I feel faint—because you send my heart pounding with such joy, how could I not give myself to you?
Oh yes—and I bake a mighty good pie.
You can learn a great deal more about me here:
https://fetlife.com/users/1686622
https://www.okcupid.com/profile/Ouroboros_Sings
Toi
You are a cis male, benevolent, genuinely kind Dom or switch, who is not locked into labels and hard definitions when it comes to exploring each other’s sensuality.
You are single, and you seek the same type of life-long, “monogamish” relationship as I, in that you desire one wonderfully romantic, primary partner who is open to the same kind of limited flexibility as I describe here: https://fetlife.com/users/1686622/posts/3825238
You are politically progressive and liberal, and this drives you to want to make the world a better, healthier place, whether you volunteer your hard-earned time and money, or are an enthused slacktivist who helps spread good information while allowing BOINC to process SETI calculations in the background—it’s all good.
You are aware and thoughtful: When you message me, kindly include your thoughts on some of the things I have stated herein. (I never respond to generic hellos.)
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