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SWM, curly gray hair, blue eyes, 6'3+. I have a huge sense of humor, a bit of a prankster actually but seriousl with most things in life. Gainfully employeed so I don't need a financial thing from you. I have traveled extensively but I also like being at home chilling. I have no need to be constantly on the go; I'm quite comfortable in my skin and surroundings.
Searching for the perfect blend...
I have been in the lifestyle for 20+ years. My experiences have varied from intense sessions of physical and mental control to light spanking and cropping... Blah Blah Blah. You’ll find alot of this on CM.
So what's so great about me...
Life experiences have afforded me opportunities to "know things". If you think that sounds arrogant, you should stop here. I tend to be able to look at many things and understand how they work. I'm meticulous with things important to me and I can be disorganized with the mundane. I know who I am. I expect, and in many cases, assume you know yourself to a basic degree. I have a level of tolerance to most everything (except nonsense), but if you push past my tolerance levels you'll quickly know where the boundaries are. People are people so all of us need to be somewhat accepting of the quirks of others. I could spend quite a bit of time on this but I will move on.... it's what real conversation is for.
I tend to be attracted to women that are inherently submissive to slave like with a desire to please. I know that is a strange thing to say here, but I find that many here are either looking for someone to beat them or support them. I like to be in my own space, so I need someone who doesn't need to be joined at the hip. While I say that, I also look for someone who wants to be connected. A strong willed, independent woman who knows her borders with me is a great turn on. It takes time to learn someone, but if you get the “look” and you keep pushing, you accept the consequences. I don't appreciate a bitchy person or someone who likes to create problems for no other reason than to get a reaction or suffer a consequence. I enjoy talking, but communicating for the sake of eliminating quiet has little value to me. I can communicate on many levels and on many subjects so there is little reason to have a meaningless conversation with me.
You should have a really strong sense of humor, like to smile often, be open to "the moment" and able to communicate what you need and think. Your family values should be strong in that your central core of people are significant to you. You should be able to maintain a vanilla life; I like this lifestyle but there has to be a blend with the vanilla world. You should expect that if I want you to lay your head in my lap it’s because I want to stroke your hair and make you *feel* something. You should understand that a swat on the butt doesn't have to be punishment. I am tactile and I am very observant. I don’t seek perfection and value highly effort, truthfulness and commitment.
I am for real and expect the same. If my writing/punctuation/spelling/choice of words/or any other form of communication are too unacceptable for you, save yourself some typing. If you're into email and phone D/s please call/email elsewhere, there are plenty of players here who will be happy to accommodate you.
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