We are an M/s couple who met in late 2007 and now live together in a 24/7 d/s situation in North London. We are genuine but playful, serious but not glum, sensible but adventurous. We are open minded and seek to meet friends, who will become more than friends but always remain friends. One night stands are therefore of much less interest than those who seek something more enduring.

He is her Master - 59, 6 foot, 175lbs, lightly but athletically built, short cropped grey hair and closely trimmed grey beard, experienced and versatile. An erotic sadist, his principal interests are shibari, bondage, cp, wax and nipple play, humiliation, enemas, role play and electrics (especially violet wands). Pony play, fire play, singletails and 3 or 4 handed play are aspirations as yet but they will come. And sometimes He likes to switch and/or cross dress (no, not the same thing!) and then a whole other frame of references appear including dressing to thrill and impress and the full range of sensation play including cbt.

she is His slave - 53, 5’ 6”, size 10, good figure, curly blonde hair, thoughtful, well read and growing in experience and confidence. her interests both follow and complement her Master’s, though if pressed her particular favourites include physical bondage, pain, humiliation, cp, and all forms of control and mental restraint, including orgasm control and obedience training. she is learning to become a competent domme on occasions, and possesses a terrific sense of visual and physical style.

Together, we seek to meet dominant men, switch or submissive women, and couples of most orientations who would like to explore mutual interests, and for whom civilised and honest communication is as important a part of foreplay as deciding if the physical chemistry is right. We are open minded about what kind of scenes we would like to explore, but children, animals, scat, blood, permanent marks and breath play are absolute hard limits. Apart from those, any suggestions would be welcome, especially from those with imagination, courtesy and the confidence that comes from really understanding and accepting themselves. And if that included any proposal for MMf, Mff or FFm, pony play, complex role play, fetish club outings, or outdoor adventures, you will find an attentive audience.

We do not expect to get killed in the rush, but nor are we so disenchanted that we believe that there is no-one out there on our wavelength. So if you feel you would like to know more, email us in the first instance and include some visual and factual information about yourself(ves) and what you are interested in.

Oscurochiara – Sept 2009