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I'm a rare b'reed, with the wisdom and experience of a much older man, but also the vim and vigor of youth. I've been doing this long enough to get comfortable with the predatory beast that lurks inside me, to make (and survive) all the stupid mistakes it takes to learn. I've put a lot of time and energy into mastering all the little intricacies that go into what we call a "scene". I'm a good communicator, both honest and direct, and I appreciate the same.
I'm naturally very dominant and have a strong personality. But not in the stereotypical macho asshole way, more reserved. Still forceful, but calm. I'm more into the pschycological aspects of play, D/s vs S/M, but I'm good at both. I'm looking for a deeply submissive woman who wants to earn the honor of wearing my collar. I'm also a very patient man, and I understand that every solid relationship takes time, so I'm not looking to rush anything.
I'm very energetic and passionate about life, but that also means I get involved in a lot of activities that eat up my time. That means I don't log in here very often, and I don't spend much time browsing profiles. So I'm going to have to ask you to be direct and message me if you're interested. I promise even if I'm not interested, I'll not be rude. I'm always a gentleman. Don't mind the last login date, I get notifications of messages sent to my email.
I'm also active in the local community and have a good reputation. Scene references are available upon request. And I'm always happy to introduce newcomers to the various groups and activities around town, so feel free to ask.
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Hello San Francisco Bay! I've heard a lot about you and your many kinky people and now I'm here to see for myself. I'm interested in meeting friends and play partners mainly, though if the sub of my dreams shows up, I'll take that too. :) I understand a lot of you are involved in complex relationships with multiple partners and I'm ok with that. All rules and boundaries will be respected. Sign up here for play dates and let me show you a wonderful night, or just stop by to say Hi! |
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Finally got part 2 of my fantasy series live. http://www.amazon.com/dp/B00CA4SG5U |
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I finally published my epic saga of BDSM erotic romance, titled Slave of Passion. It has been half a lifetime in the making and deals heavily with themes of slavery and abduction and finding love within the context of that kind of relationship. Not for the faint of heart, it delves into some pretty touchy and taboo subjects.
So far only the first part, about 180 pages, is up, but 2 more are ready to go, close to 600 pages total. For anyone who is interested you can find part 1 here: http://www.amazon.com/dp/B007SRTZTA
If you do read it, feel free to leave feedback. I'd love to hear it! |
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I recently made the mistake of telling a 'nilla girl who was really, really into me about some of my BDSM interests. Ran smack into a tangle of negative associations, then fumbled my attempt to educate and enlighten her on what BDSM is and is not. <sigh> She was cute too..
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I recently had a very promising relationship go sour on me. The lady in question had been saying all the right things, telling me how important a deep D/S relationship was to her, how she wanted to be challenged and transformed. But when it came down to brass tacks, she decided she just wasn't ready for this kind of relationship, it was too deep, too scary, and involved giving up too much control. It was deeply, deeply disappointing. Ladies, please be capable of ACTUALLY making up your mind about what you want ahead of time instead of chickening out once an offer is on the table.
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Most of the so-called "Doms" out there disgust me. Just because you are an egocentric dickhead doesn't mean you are a "Dom" or "Master". Submission is given not taken. True dominance is the recieving of the most precious gift imaginable, the heart and soul of another human being. With the acceptance of that gift comes the responsibility of caring for it. Failure to do so means another person has their heart crushed.
That said, all you "submissives" who come to me with an agenda and demands can just keep on walking. Submission is about service, period. I will not tolerate topping from the bottom. I am not here to pamper you and pretend to be in control while you call the shots. That is one thing (along with SAMs) that will bring out my cruel streak with a quickness. So long as you approach me with a heart of giving and a spirit of generosity, you will recieve the same. But when you bring an attitude of selfishness, that is when the claws come out.
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