I took the following from the profile of a very intelligent lady who obviously truly understands what it means. If this is you, I definitely want to hear from you.
" I do not want to be the leader,I refuse to be the leader.I want to live darkly and richly in my femaleness. I want a man lying over me, always over me. His will His pleasure,His desire,His life, His work, His sexuality the touchstone, the command, the pivot. I don't mind working, holding my ground intellectually, artistically, but as a woman, oh god, as a woman I want to be dominated. I don't mind being told to stand on my own feet, not to cling, be all that I'm capable of doing, but I am going to be pursued, fucked, possessed by the will of a Male at His time, His bidding"---- Anais Nin |