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I'm not currently seeking more than friendship as I am already owned. Seriously. My cup runneth over with love, thank you very much. I'm always eager to find new friends and playmates (singles or couples) and I do make it to other community play parties and whatnot from time to time. Never know who you'll get to "bump" into. ;)


For Friends and Fellow Kinksters: Please be local and realistic. No cyber, and no long-distance stalkers! Also, I don't accept friend invitations. Let's meet in person and then I'll share with you where my list of lifestyle friends is located. To me, this is not a clique competition for numbers.

I'm lookin' for fellow old souls, new friends and engaging in some unprotected intellectual intercourse (which is not solely composed of sex and inuendo, though I'm fairly skilled at both of those). I find a sharp mind and wit to be the best lure. For me, D/s does not equal slightly "kinky" sex...even in abundance. I do switch from time to time, primarily with women.


Oh, and I'm respectfully not the doormat variety of submissive.

Thank you!

:)


***NOTICE*** Latex Allergy.
12/4/2016 6:19:09 AM
Dark Odyssey Winter Fire 2017, here we go again! Come party with us again and let the good times roll! FL message for any further correspondence on the event.
4/2/2014 5:22:52 AM

The Floating World 2014

Edison, NJ

July 25-July 27

Meet & Greet to be hosted at Harold's NY Deli Thursday evening for those interested! Let's make playdates! 

2/5/2014 1:15:02 PM

Washington DC, Dark Odyssey's Winter Fire 2014

2/14-2/16 

Available for scenes with appropriate negotiation!

Also hosting Settle-In Social Thursday 2/13 in the host hotel for early arrivals. See FL or DOWF attendee area for details!

:-)

See ya there!

10/18/2013 8:30:58 AM

Some days...I feel just a few cyber-seconds away from the power curve. On the other hand, I'm *always* more powerful in real life. 

:-)

4/23/2013 12:10:03 PM

Okay, people. I'm NOT a dominant, Domme, Ma'am or Miss and I do NOT switch with men. I'll write to you, chat with you, hang out and spend time with you... but I will NOT beat your ass or tie your balls to your uvula. You'd probably like that too much! And I'm just mean like that. 

:-)

4/15/2012 7:37:05 PM

So, who's going to TFW2012? Do look me up if you're in need of a demo bottom! It's gonna be a blast! :-)

2/22/2012 10:22:26 AM

Oh, my! What a weekend! My nipples are bruised and itchy and pierced! The insides of my thighs look like I took a long hard ride on a bucking bronco and I'm still at muscle-failure in my arms, I swear! It was fan-damn-tastic and I can't wait till next year already! Say hi again if you're someone I ran into at DOWF! 

1/20/2012 6:53:33 AM

We've got a king room at the host hotel for Dark Odyssey's Winter Fire (Feb 17-20)! Who's going?! I'd love to be able to hook up with new people, so drop me a few lines to say hello if you've got plans to join for the weekend or just snag a day pass! Have a fantasy you'd like to play out? I *could* be your gal (with permission, of course!). Just ask!

12/8/2011 11:11:27 AM

So...does Collarme still put me in WA? I frequently get viewed from lots of the PNW users. 

To clarify, I used to live in Tacoma (like...going on three years ago!) but now am in Virginia. This doesn't mean I don't know where you are and that I wouldn't have something interesting to say, though! Never know when/where I'll get to show up, so go ahead and say "hi!"

:-)

11/22/2011 8:02:04 PM

Heading to Dark Odyssey Winter Fire in February! Who's with me?!

 

 

8/24/2010 12:22:02 PM
You've got to prove to me...by some small gesture...that you've actually seen, read, and comprehended my profile's basics before I'll even bother to respond to your messages. I won't respond to friend requests under any circumstances, so just get over that one right now. You wanna be my "friend"? Let's meet.

Oh, and don't bother to get all sensitive and pissy when I call you stupid for leaping before you look. You know...if the boot fits...
1/18/2010 2:37:23 PM

Yes, I'm owned. Very happily so. No, I'm not going to jeopardize that for anyone. Why am I here,then? Because, as my profile states, I'm somewhat active in the public/social "scene" and enjoy meeting new people and making new friends.My Sir and I also play nicely (or not so nicely? lol) with others. We can both host, we are both intelligent and I've got a hot tub that I keep at-the-ready, so if you're mature, experienced, very local, respectful and a good conversationalist, I/we would like to meet you.
I'm not trolling for a newer or better "Dom" or for topping (unless you're a voluptuously switchy woman!) and I take inviting people into my home seriously. This invitation for contact and friendship is not for one-hit-wonder folks just passing through, but for lifetime friendship and potential play partners. Again, sexy and sumptuous females are personally encouraged (by me!).

:)

11/2/2009 10:31:59 PM

Every once in an apparently infrequent while, I gasp and have a care to think whether or not I've become what I've aspired to or if I've become what I dislike in others. I get a dreadful yet comforting need to check myself and take a faculty inventory. And just when I didn't know I'd need to most. There is always one to thank for that, even from my chagrinned position.

10/29/2009 9:46:10 PM
Those Kink.Com online cyber slave girls squick me. I've got the wiggin's. Eek!
10/6/2009 8:05:03 PM

For those that have been looking at the same profile of mine for eons, please note the updated-ness of it. It's subtle, but significant.

8/31/2009 6:01:30 PM
So, I'm all settled into the new house...mostly. I'm so happy! My own new play room, too! It's just a shame my dumb ass had to dislocate my shoulder on the first go at it! Not the most retarded thing I've done, but it's up there. lol. I can't wait to be given the clearance from ortho to try it again! (The bondage, not the medical emergency. )
6/12/2009 8:55:34 AM
Wow, there sure are some jaded and skeptically bitter folks out there. Hopefully, it's all got to do with the online drama and not the lifestyle itself.
6/10/2009 9:21:03 AM

Home Sweet Home in...1 month, 20 days, 19 hours and 39 min...25 seconds...24, 23, 22...

3/31/2009 7:18:17 PM

Celebrating the 10th anniversary of my 21st Birthday. Bring it on!

1/1/2009 10:22:51 PM

Happy New Year! Wow, what a Party! We enjoyed ourselves to the fullest and I'm still literally "buzzing" and blushing with how awesome it was! I can't wait to do it again! And again! And again!
*grin*

12/15/2008 6:04:41 AM

Liebe und das Leben sind gut!
Frohe Weihnachten und glückliches neues Jahr!

:)

Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays to everyone!
What a year! It's good to have a happy ending.

9/18/2008 6:45:45 PM

I consider this newfound affinity with interest; "There are those who inspire in me a warm and trustful feeling, though they seem incalculably remote. It is a little like the way one feels about God, a being all-powerful, stern but merciful (if one could catch His ear), yet naturally so engaged in vast enterprises that one would never dare to intrude one's self..."

 Perhaps it is this mystery and piecemeal discovery of self and others that stirs me to damnable curiosity.

So I will be patient, yet hopeful. And perhaps soon...I shall dare to intrude (ever so complaisant), or be welcomed forward.

7/30/2008 12:09:41 AM
Well, I'm about to be "home" again. Starting from scratch. I know who and what I am, though I've known for a long time. Where to find someone that wants me for who and what I am...that is the challenge. And I do love me a good challenge.
Hooray for escaping the West Coast!
7/2/2007 10:09:02 PM
Sometimes, don't you just find it necessary to say something and then the only words that seem like they might even be partially observed are..."Please, Sir."

Can't I just pretend to be a novice again?

Can't I be someone's novice?

*sigh* and "Oh, bother."

PS- the previous babble is just nostalgia getting hold of me. My apologies. :)
6/14/2007 9:57:31 PM
It's been a whirlwind of a spring, that's for sure. I have to say that I'm overwhelmed with "stuff" right now, and so while I appreciate getting to know new folks and finding things to do, I probably won't be able to respond to anyone with the time and attention that they may deserve. I'll continue to check messages and touch base from time to time, but if I don't get back to anyone, it's because I am incommunicado or restricted in time. Nothing personal.
Tschuss, menschen!
Bis später dann!
 


Nickyjml
 
 Age: 32
 Fayetteville, North Carolina