A troubling truth about our american world... I likely have one of the longest block list, if not the longest block list in all of CM... Here is a link to one of the reasons why...
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S05P3Do8pfk
That is just an small direction example concerning one area of problems. It is a troubling problem that seems to be growing in society in general. Seems to explain why the ProFemDoms on this website seem to open up with "financial slavery."
One thing to be into BDSM as a fetish or a genuinely mutual arrangement...
But this?
This seem more like abusing a maladjusted error in society.
In fact, I think you are seeing a decreasing number of male contacts and your in boxes are not filling up, or they are filling up with either brain dead jerks who stopped caring cause there isn't anything in it for them to care about other then fuck and run, or people saying your fake and you are getting very few e-mails from genuine men. Really. I have been seeing an increasing number of female problems getting mad on their journals or profile how they either get flooded with mails from jerks or from guys blaming them for being fake.
But have you stopped to think their maybe a reason for that? Has the possibility ever occurred to you that we are not all "balls for brains, sex starved deranged jerks" that will bow to your every whim and take a beating just because we hope for the mere chance to get laid? Did it ever occur to you that we may actually have a real brain capable of assessing the situation and weighing the cost of if we should or shouldn't get involved with you cause of the risk potential to ourselves seems out of balance?
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ifiDCzGwR7s
Fortunately not all women are self entitled, this next video is at least of one that has some real sense!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O60atA59xgE
At least she gets what real gender equality is and what would be needed in fair and balanced relationship.
Don't mistaken these as bashing BDSM it self, I am all for people making their own choices to be a dom, a sub, a master, a slave and then allowing the right mix to meet up and form mutually beneficial relationships in the roles they choose... but I am seeing way to much entitlement additives. I can't even use reasonable jokes around with some of the members on this site and I get called "rude" or "loser," because some member thing they are entitled to someone just brainlessly falling at their feet licking the dirt out of their toenails.
There is a big difference between forming either a mutual M/S relationship, or getting to talk with each other to role play out a rape fantasy verse expecting someone to bow down and worship you because you have a certain sex organ.
Even my requirements in my own profile description, require forming a mutually beneficial relationship. Even if you did become a 24/7 slave to me, and we had lots of fun sex, we are going to have sex 24/7 for the rest of our lives. Our lives will require reasonable planning, responsibility, intellectual and wise understanding, emotional developing connections, experimentation to find out what will work best and how to make it better when ever possible in all aspects as often as reasonably possible.
