I have read a fair amount of bdsm fantasy work and have come to the conclusion that either people dont know or they dont want to talk about the actual relationship that a Master and a slave truly have. Now these are my thoughts not yours so if you are going to get all pissy and childish in my mail box dont bother I wont read it, I dont care.
You are to be seen and not heard. Uhhh wtf? I dont know about you but I dont know how long I could stay with someone that didnt listen to my wants and needs, W/we are in this relationship because I have a need and you have a need and W/we are mutually agreeing to take care of each others needs. I am not driven by my pussy, I have a mind and a heart, if you do not want these as well then you might as well have bought a blow up doll. Master and I talk, W/we talk a lot, W/we talk about the things W/we enjoy, movies, books, W/we laugh, W/we joke, and when He takes me to the bed room I am free to let go and simply be, because I know that He has listened to me and that I can trust Him.
You used a safe word you must be a weak useless whore, again wtf? W/we explore limits together He is not me and I am not Him, how would He know if He has reached my limit with out this word, how can I feel safe if He shames me or ignores me when I use it.
You as a Master as a dominant have a responsibility to your submissive or slave, they are not just meat, they are a tender, gentle, fragile being that depend on you to be aware, to be safe, to be sane, you are not there to break their spirit and their heart, you are there to build them up to support them. |