We are a D/s couple from the Midlands, somewhere near the Nottinghamshire/Derbyshire border. We live the lifestyle as close to 24/7 as life will permit. I am Ordine, the Dominant half of the couple. Catene is my slave and lives under my control. She is not a slave to anyone else and will never be. Catene is now also my wife, in a real and legally binding sense!

Catene has permission to talk to well mannered, nice, fun loving people in the scene, and we follow a rule… if you want to be friends with one of us you must be friends with both of us. However you should be aware that we are not actively looking for play mates.

Catene may love to be controlled, but she is no shrinking violet. Treat her with respect. Neither of us will tolerate anyone else treating her badly, physically or verbally. I have access to all her email and site accounts and can monitor all of her communications.

We also occasionally socialise, at munches or fairs, and sometimes in the middle of the night in a car park!