Collarspace.com

With so much going on in my life I've decided it would be best to seek someone with similar interests and time constraints. You don't even have to be local if you are an intelligent, politically liberal woman who'd like to explore D/s meet-ups [think Alan Alda and Ellen Burstyn in 'Same Time Next Year] but local would of course, be better. Who am I? I'm a reasonably attractive, intelligent, H/W proportional male with an 'enjoy our time together' outlook seeking a mutually beneficial long-term relationship based on shared interest. The kind of trysts I have in mind will be treated as special occasions - no 'one-night-stands' and 'no-tell motels'. Life is short.

Attitude and shared desires are more important than looks but mutual attraction is of course a plus. An attached busy professional in a verifiable open marriage* who's able to travel to exotic locations (or meet half-way) would be ideal, but unattached could also work.
Photo(s) available.
OpenOhio



*You will be given every opportunity to verify with my spouse that we have a successful poly marriage. Some seem to have difficulty getting past the notion that there will be some underlying drama - there won't. We've enjoyed an open marriage for 20+ years.



4/11/2014 9:11:12 PM

OK, I'm beginning to wonder if my profile is just too damn intellectual so I'll cut to the chase...


I'm in an open marriage and I seek an attractive fuck-buddy for an exclusive, long-term relationship based on kink as well as various vanilla activities, including travel.


Supposedly, women of a certain age who aren't looking for a husband, or to start a family, are attracted to married men.  Let's test that theory.,

9/21/2011 9:38:29 AM

Profile has been updated as of 7/11/12.


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Things I find amusing on CM...

Under 20 Doms / Dommes who claim to be 'experienced'

Women who primarily post photos of their feet - it's all about the feet

Women who 'Love' wearing garters, hose and corsets but list Objectification as a 'Hard Limit'

People who bitch about the 'fakes' on CM but post generic photos that are obviously not them

 


Things I find distressing on CM...

Women who don't bother to read my profile and are later offended to find out I'm married - it's an OPEN marriage with the word OPEN in the heading people!

Women who present themselves as an ideal match only to reveal that they are in an unhappy marriage, hubby doesn't know, and they can't entertain

 

Younger subs (of both sexes) who are offended that I won't drop everything and rush to meet them after one or two exchanges

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

holdmedownand
 
 Age: 38
 New York, New York