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OpenMindedMiDom

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I will keep this as short as I can, sweet and on point: I'm looking for someone who needs, longs as well as desires to please and wants to get to know an amazing dominant gentleman. I am professional, educated, natural dominant with a strong mentor/protector "daddy style". In addition, I'm able understand as well as balance the real world with the kink world. I believe that people are generally good (yes there are a few bad apples) and that life is what you make it. Happiness is a state of mind! I have chosen to be happy. I identify as pansexual. No, that doesn't mean I want to have sex with every man, woman, or transgender person! What it means to me and why I identify as 'pan' is I base my attraction on who a person is not what sexual organs they have or don't have.
  • I believe that trust and honesty are key components of making any relationship work from friendships to even a marriage but when you add this lifestyle to the mix they are simply essential!
  • My mind is open and not judgmental to the best of my abilities. If someones tastes, kinks or lifestyle is different than mine that is fine. In fact, I find that by getting to know people with different views and tastes I learn more about myself (and them too!).
  • This lifestyle requires the need (at least for me) to be constantly learning and it is something I love about it. There are always new ways to do an 'old trick' or new things to try/experience.
  • Communication is something that I am very good at and value in my friends.
  • I am very perceptive at reading people. If you see me at a poker table you might consider just handing me your money LoL! Nonverbal communications are often so rarely picked up upon in today's send an email or text message world. Nothing can replace sitting down, looking into someone's eyes and conversing.
I'm not a perfect person. I have made mistakes and I will make them in the future too. The key for me is to learn from them and endeavor to not repeat them. Pictures...Yes I know you will ask, I do have them and I am willing to share them with someone where there is mutual interest. I have been asked what I 'believe' a few times and I think Crash Davis sums it up perfectly for me:
  • "Well, I believe in the soul...the cock...the pussy...the small of a woman's back...the hangin' curveball...high fiber...good scotch...that the novels of Susan Sontag are self-indulgent overrated crap...I believe Lee Harvey Oswald acted alone. I believe there ought to be a Constitutional amendment outlawing Astroturf and the designated hitter. I believe in the sweet spot, soft core pornography, opening your presents Christmas morning rather than Christmas Eve, and I believe in long, slow, deep, soft, wet kisses that last three days."
If you want to learn more, drop me a line!
2/21/2013 12:19:18 PM

What kind of Dominant are you is a question many ask someone when they are getting to know them. It has been something that I have worked to explain and discover within myself. Here is something I found and then corrupted to make it my own but I think it may help answer that question:

When you wake up and see him brushing the hair from your sleepy face ...

that's me

When you're sick, he is there to prepare and make sure you eat your soup ...

that's me

When you need a hug, and he is there with a zillion ...

that's me

When you need to finish something important but can't, he is there to push ...

that's me

When your tears fall ... he is there to wipe them away, make you smile again ...

that's me

When you have fears and trust issues, he helps you through ...

that's me

When you're cold, he brings a blanket ...

that's me

When you are hurting and pulling away, he is there to pull you back ...

that's me

When you're unsure of how you feel, or what you want, he shows you the way, and helps you understand ....

that's me

When you can't talk, or express your words, he helps ....

that's me

When you have a dirty little secret, no matter what it is, he listens and loves that you've told him ...

that's me

When you've been bad, he knows what to do to get your attention and correct the problem ...

that's me

When you need a spanking, he's there ...

that's me

missgrey94
 
 Age: 18
 Niagara falls, New York