This site is a microcosm of society itself. It is abundantly evident that the most prevalent problem in society is lack of self respect. This site raises that to an art form. Women who have no respect for themselves are looking for men so they can make them as miserable as they themselves feel. Of course, not one single so called Domme would admit to that, but these women live completely unconscious lives, because they have lost touch with their basic essence. That essence is your soul. Your soul is the encapsulation of the very energy that has existed since the beginning of time and connects you to every other living thing. If you recognize the existence of your soul then you couldn't possibly want to mistreat or abuse someone. The energy of the universe is a benign, loving force. It has to be. We couldn't possibly exist unless there was a benign force operating in our favor. We exist in order to perpetuate that benign, loving force. And when you don't act in accordance with that purpose you are out of touch with your essence and you live unconsciously. This is not opinion. This is indisputable fact. As John Lennon said, love is the answer, and your primary purpose is to create love. So when women tell me I'm not submissive I just laugh. I am very submissive, I just live a conscious life. The woman I submit has to live the same way, realizing that the creation of love is her primary purpose. You display self respect by treating others respectfully, and when you don't you might as well be wearing a t-shirt that tells the world you don't have any self respect, because the hallmark of self respect is respect for others. I have to be able to respect and admire the woman I submit to. As an intelligent, submissive, conscious man, how could I possibly submit to a woman who has no respect for herself? If you are going to be a real Domme, then you should be a role model, a woman who conducts herself with dignity and class and who is conscious of her soul and the need to create love. I may never find a dominant woman on this barren site but no one can say that I am not submissive or that I don't know what I want. You don't need to be wealthy, but you need to have a passion for self improvement, you must recognize your soul as the connection to all living things and you must recognize your primary purpose is to create love. When I find such a woman I will gladly submit to being her sub for the rest of my life.