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| I have been here before, under differnet names as My place changed. Once, it was a place to meet slaves, to build real relationships, to live the lifestyle we all chose.
Today, it is a place where you have as much chance of being asked for money as you do of finding a slave; it's a place where too many see TPE as something you can achieve at the end of a network connection; where "learning about you" means months of providing fantasy fodder for the "slave" and listening to them tell you about what they seek, only to have them disappear at the first suggestion that it progress to real-life service.
So, one final profile - one last ditch effort to find a "real" slave. I am an experienced Master, the owner over the years of several slaves (yes, I have one now). I am strict and controlling, but I am highly intelligent and responsible - I view slaves as property, but as valuable property to be cherished, nutrured and protected. I don't set up fantasy sessions for my slaves (though I would entertain a visiting slave's desire for such), but integrate slavery, submission, and deference into every part of my and my slave's life.
I recognize the need for caution and safety - I am not against a reasonable amount of "learning about the other", but reasonable is where I draw the line. I will no longer take hours developing messages of "how I envision your first day/week/month to be" or "what types of extreme things (be detailed) I will do to you". Suffice to say I expect your initial time to be strict, rigid, difficult, painful, humiliating, and anything else it takes to train you that you are my slave. After that, we will develop a relationship based on who we are, not upon a series of cyber-fantasies. As for extreme - the range there is broad as well, but will be based on how you and I interact, not on what I can imagine in my mind as the most extreme thing I can do.
I have very few limits - permanent disfigurement or damage, and death rank up there. I do not put my slave in legal or physical jeopardy, and I strive to allow the slave to maintain outside connections (family, friends) in as non-demonstrative manner as possible. I enjoy most everything else in the lifestyle, from the gentle to the extreme, and as my slave, you will likely see the entire range.
If you are real, if you truly desire to serve - in person - and become a slave, I welcome your message. If you are looking to chat for information or simply as friends, I welcome that as well. But if the conversation veers toward "I want to serve you in person, but only after six months of detailed chats" - we can say goodbye. I do not dominate online unless it is for a fixed time, and the slave is prepared to provide camera or photo access as well.
Beyond that, I hope this last effort is fruitful.
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Both the quantity and the quality of those who call themselves "slaves" has deteriorated of late -- I suspect the same is true of the Dominants, though I have no yardstick for that.
With the proliferation of relocation scams, fantasy collectors, picture whores, and simple fakes, I think it's time to take a rest from CollarMe. Perhaps I'll return again, though right now that's not in my plans.
For the few here who are real and who do hope to meet a compatible partner (of any persuasion) here, I wish you well. I HAVE found true slaves on CollarMe - just not in recent memory, and I have no more stomach to weed through the throngs of fakes.
On September 16, I will depart - to those I've talked with, good luck. To those who have my personal contact information, I still welcome your call. To all others, I can only wish you the best.
<M>
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Another "growth" experience.... I write a polite letter to a slave, not demanding, not asking for anything - just commenting nicely on her profile. She responds with a "thank you for the e-mail" letter; quite nice. When I try to say "you're welcome", I'm blocked....
Why do I ever think things will change.....
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Why is it, when a "sub" sets out a list of their desires and their criteria in a respondent, and you meet all of them with a considered, polite introduction, they still think it's okay to simply delete the message and ignore the sender? Even outside the D/s lifestyle, ignoring someone who politely says "hello" is still considered rude, isn't it?
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And though I thought that months would be enough to find a difference, it has not... and a new one on me.... being blocked by someone I had never written to....
Why do I bother...
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Thinking that I had found a "real" slave out here, I foolishly returned....
And found that the slave, whom I had under consideration had chosen to belong to another - and then blocked me from writing... This is definitely the last that CollarMe will see of me for some time...
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Well, I've apparently gotten the answer to my last question of "when will it end?" - and the answer is "it doesn't". I tried to give CM another chance, I tried to believe that there had to be at least one actual submissive or, dare I even think it, slave out here that was ready to even consider something beyond a chat game or cyber-masturbation.
Sadly, I was apparently wrong, and so I will leave this profile fallow for a time - until perhaps I forget about the ones who are ready, but not, and the ones who can't even put in more than a two-word answer....
If you have my contact info and want to chat, I'll be lurking about -- but I really don't have the stomach for more conversation here with people who haven't a clue about what this lifestyle is, or the courage to either enter it or walk away...
I wish all well in their searches, real or imaginary, and hope that someday the halls ofCM will again have true subs and slaves walking them.
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when will it stop???
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A "no limits extreme whore" who will be free soon and wants an extreme Master to abuse it.... emails back and forth with me asking questions and suggesting activities; her with simple, embedded responses...
And a simple question..... When will she be free from her current contract? No answer, so asked again.... no answer other than "don't know yet". asked a third time to get the information form her current owner ----- "deleted unread".
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And then the young pair of slaves seeking a new Master to own and control them, let them serve as they are "hurting" to do.... a ling and thoughtful response outlining why we should talk, with no answer (though it was read and the slaves logged in twice again since)... so a gentle request to at least acknowledge the offer, a suggestion that they would be remiss not to do so, and a reminder that courtesy and respect would suggest at least an acknowledgement....
The answer back -- "deleted unread"
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Of course, that doesn't include the ones who "welcome discussion" and ask for my Yahoo, then disappear in the middle of a discussion, never to be seen again.
When, oh when will I learn that this is an adult playground with pretend castles and dungeons, instead of a place where people actually seek to interact with each other beyond a keyboard???
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yet another example of today's "slave"... one begging to be used, describing its training and its needs, saying it wants 24/7/365 TPE.....
Two polite and direct messages, offering it a place.. no response.
The third offer... blocked.
Why do I even bother any more
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Is it just me, or did the introduction of the "hover over preview" on the messages result in fewer and fewer who actually read and respond to others?
Things have certainly changed among the denizens of CM - and I don't think for the better.
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