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| True to my name I am one sadistic bitch. I will hurt you.
I am intelligent, fun, and caring. You should be the same. I am not interested in hearing what you want from me. The question is what can you do for me? That is your purpose to enrich my life and provide entertainment. I am not looking for financial support or lavish gifts (though you should want to give gifts). I am financially secure as you should be. I lead a full and happy life but am missing that key MALE submissive or slave to serve at my feet.
Service to me means time. We must be able to spend time together so basically all you idiots who live in NYC, England, or Afghanistan how exactly do you propose that is going to work? Service also means sex, cuddling or whatever else I want when I want it. It's very common for my submissives to experience a good beat down and then a long slow fucking session. Be prepared, all your parts must work.
Still with me? Send me a intelligent introduction that doesn't include the phrases: what do you like or what are you going to do to me and we can talk. I am open and friendly but your stay once inside the door will be short if you lose appreciation for my time or let the little head take over.
I am real and willing to meet but you must be single, smart, semi interesting, SUBMISSIVE and within 1 hour driving distance.
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So let me get this straight ..... Male submissives want me to beat them, beat their private parts, allow you to come to my house to clean my bathroom or whatever but you think that we don't have to get to know each other? I can see the logic because while your protecting yourself and your identity like you work for the CIA. I am supposed to be completely open and transparent. Hmmmm yeah.
Hint #1 - I am not a pro Domme or a service top. I won't be renting a hotel room to play with a random stranger.
Hint#2 - Approaching every woman as such maybe the reason you aren't meeting anyone.
Hint#3 - Actually taking an interest and acting like a normal person may get you what you want.
Just a random thought.
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I recently read this and I thought this expresses much of what Dommes experience. Thank you to Tinkerhell.
We're in boxes on the shelves of Dommes R Us just waiting for the perfect male sub to come along with a head filled with scripts he's been masturbating to since puberty to pick one of us. We're to the left of the Fifis and one aisle to the right of the inflatable dolls that promise " to love you long time".
I have difficulty understanding the disconnect - why do people think that the D/s relationships are somehow less than regular relationships. Especially lifestyle BDSM - which is at its core a relationship. You want to be beaten, you want to be punished, you want to serve... guess how many messages I get a day when my profile is active that read just like your post? By the way...would you approach a chick you wanted to date with with a laundry list of your wants, needs and fantasies before you know her first name?
Let me turn it around for you... what about YOU would make it worth my while to single you out from the 15 new unread messages that have appeared in my inbox since I signed on a little while ago? What are you besides yet another middle aged guy looking to be spanked? What makes you interesting?
Finally on the subject of "money" - I used to think that this site was just infested with parasites, and it is. But there are also subs on here who think that every woman on here is for sale, available to the highest bidder? How exactly is that anything but insulting?
Do Male Dominants get the same kind of messages from women? Before I gave up on the idea of finding a male sub on here, my profile started with "DO NOT SEND ME EMAIL OFFERING ME MONEY" - which did nothing to stem the flow of "I want to spoil you" messages. I finally reached a point where I would send out a response with a wish list and the statement that I would only respond once I received a gift. That simple act put a stop to the multiple messages that I received from subs who couldn't be bothered to actually read my profile.
I realize you didn't ask for advice, you asked for a map where X marks the spot but I'm going to offer advice anyway. I suggest that you think about presenting yourself as a whole person - rather than just an Id that needs a Super Ego to smack it into submission. |
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You must be within one hour driving distance from me.
I think this sentence is pretty self explanatory. Kudos to those that read and understand this.
I receive a large number of emails from people who are not only outside my distance requirement but more than 8 hours away. I'm not sure if my profile is such that you get bored prior to reading that part and just act or if people think that they are so magically different that I will change my standards to fit them.
Anyone wanna guess why I have this requirement? Boys? Anyone?
Playing with me is a PRIVILEGE not a right. You must earn my attention and you only do that by being in my presence. By service to me. I know that jerking off in front of me via Skype may qualify as service to some but simply not to me. I will not be your internet Domme no matter how charming you think your come on is.
To the guy in California who believes that being from NY but living in California qualifies you hmmmmm... Why don't you sit and hold your breath until I respond.
One hour means that you will physically be in my presence within 60 minutes of any given time. It's not difficult.
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07/31/14
So the outpouring of emails I have received has been truly flattering but I haven't found that one person who connects with me. I have been on and off this site for a while now and it's the same old stuff. I don't think I am looking for anything completely out of the ordinary here. I am looking for that one person who generates my interest who can have a meaningful conversation and engage my intellect. How many times can you ask me submissively what I like, what I want. That is important but if I can't get to know you I can't really become interested enough to want to take things to the next level. Once I am bored then it's done.
Making me laugh at something genuinely funny not just silly is never a bad start. |
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