Note: I have no interest in male submissives...I obviously can't control malesubs viewing me, but there's no need to contact me for anything regarding SM activities...Thank you... 

 What do I want/seek/desire ?? Control. Control lay at the heart of any relationship, in SM, it's just defined differently, I express mine as a desire to recieve control over a human/person/submissive/slave...If I were interested in a vanilla relationship, my desire would be to share control, not recieve it from my partner...Outside of that, my kinks are those things which I enjoy performing with my partner, hopefully she shares a number of them...

My fetishes are less than few...When, in the midst of my fetish, you, as my partner know their power, how they have some unnamed power over me, how I need them, how they pleasure me deeply through you providing them to me... 

If your'e new? do your homework. Homework means reading, asking questions from local people who do SM, before you jump into this. Your life, your responsibility. Best of journey to you.