I am not what you would consider a lifestyler, per se, simply because I believe that domination and submission goes beyond protocols, gear and kink. I believe it is a much deeper need than just something to display thru a protocol or during a play session. I believe domination and submission is not a hat you wear and display it when you feel like and take it off when you don't. It's part of who and what you are therefore it should be lived all the time but since we live in a vanilla world it should be manifested in subtle and subdued ways so you can express your submission and live it without comprmising or exposing yourself. This is why I like to explore and go beyond the staples such as leather, corsets and the typical lifestyle protocols. This might not appeal to all but to those whom it might, drop me a note and we can talk further.

I am not sure about the level of the depth you want to explore but I am sure we can talk and share our experience and interests.