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Hetero Male Dominant, 49,  Phoenix, Arizona
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Who I am.A poet, a knight, an old soul, and many more things that make up the mystery of me. I am more of anDaddy Domwhich in some very distinct ways is different then a Dominant, Top or Master. I am more and at the same time less than a woman may have experienced in the past simply because I am true to myself, my codes of conduct, honor and how I feel a woman should be treated and handled.

There is nothing fake, phony or contrived about my life. I live life fully each day. I am not a spring chicken and value all of the experiences that I have gained in and out of the lifestyle. I expect respect, courtesy and honesty in all things I give what I receive.

Ive owned complete slaves, weekend wenches and raised a daughter or two. In my work life, Ive been a city inspector, a remodeling contractor, maintenance worker, referee, office gopher, bouncer, phone solicitor, tool salesman, electronic Technician, butter packer, electro-mechanical technician, arcade repairman and a truck driver. In my spare time I spent a year as a king in a medieval game.

Ive experienced most s of play and like the old guy I am, I have passed on what I know to those who have asked.

Being a Daddy means that you look after those in your care and keep them from harm. You strive to get the best from them and do the best for them. I identify more with daddydom than a top or master because I want to make you the best you can be. I wont just push you to please me. I will make you strive to take pride in who you are and what you do.

What Im looking for has never changed even if my perception of it has.

Im looking for a 1950s wife a little girl that needs her Daddy. One that wants to cuddle, and loves it when she is called pet.

If all you desire is a play session, then pass me by. But if you want a life time relationship where you are treasured and not treated as trash, then Imay bewhat you seek.











Last Online:


 Dominant Male



 6' 2"

 300 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Submissive Female

 Lives For:

 Amusement Parks

 Antique Shows

 Renaissance Faires


 Martial Arts



 Massage (Getting)

 Obedience Training


 Speech Restrictions

 Arcade Games

 Card Games



 Historical Shows



 Fine Dining

 Flea Markets


 Garage Sales




 Horseback Riding


 Ultimate Frisbee



 Body Worship


 Breast Play


 Canes and Crops

 Corner Time

 Eye Contact Restrictions


 Hair Pulling


 Massage (Giving)

 Mental Bondage


 Orgasm Denial

 Outdoor Bondage

 Pony/Puppy Roleplay

 Role Playing

 Sensory Deprivation





 Wax play

 Board Games

 Role Playing Games

 Science Fiction

 Body Art






 Intellectual Discourse






 1950s Lifestyle

 Goth Lifestyle


 Lifestyle BDSM

 Folk Music




 Musical Theater



 Surf Boarding


 Wind Surfing

 Anal Play


 Electrical Play



 Fire Play


 Maid/Butler Service

 Plastic Wrap

 Rubber Fetish


 Vacuum Stimulation

 Comedy Shows

 TV Sports

 Alternative Medicine

 Art Collecting



 Online Auctions







 Gorean Lifestyle





 Art Galleries

 Bar Hopping


 Going to the Opera




 Skate Boarding




 Foot Worship

 Housework Service

 Medical Play



 True Crime



 Candle Making







 Diet and Exercise

 Old Guard


 Curious About:

 Scuba Diving










 Knife Play

 Masks (On Partner)


 Public Play


 Theatrical Scenes




 Online Chatrooms

 Online RPGs

 Puzzle Games

 Romance Novels

 Simulation Games



 Soap Making







 Bird Watching

 Coffee Shops





 Local BDSM Community

 Gas Masks

 Masks (Wearing)

 Needle Play


 Cross Stitch



 Hard Limits:





 TV News

 Conservative Politics

 Liberal Politics

 Libertarian Politics

 Political Activism

 Female Supremacy

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Journal Entries:
10/22/2021 4:25:48 AM


Noticed that journals were working again.

Seems to be slot less people here since covid.

Covid came extremely close to killing me.  I'll bear the marks till my dying day.  If I should ever live that long.

2/23/2017 2:46:59 AM
I was responding to a question about my top 5 rules.  So I thought I would leave them here.


This is from a Daddy/dom viewpoint.

1) She is not alloweed to put herself down.  If I think she is worth my time I require that she thinks so as well.

2) No swearing.  I expect her to behave like a lady

3) 8 hours of sleep.  I require that she gets enough rest.  I prefer a 9 pm bedtime but thats not always feasible on the hours I live

4) Balanced diet.  I actually like bigger girls but I require that mine eats well.  Healthy mind-healthy body etc.

5) Respect, I require that she Sir or ma'am's everyone.  Regaurdless of age.  (Old Sensi of mine taught me that and I do it as well)


9/8/2016 7:57:32 AM
Fired another guy today.  This was more fun than the last few I've had to axe.  Ex-army guy with a 5 cent head.  He brought a buddy and he took it personal.  I have to admit I enjoyed the skirmish.  I'm old and slow but these guys just couldn't fight.  Chuckles. 

2/23/2016 4:54:49 AM
Ran across this on another profile.

Resonates with me.

2/14/2015 8:34:12 AM
Happy Singles Awareness day!

10/19/2014 7:31:26 AM
Friday ended up being a unique day.  I fired a guy.  He was just a trainee and he was really not cut out for the job.  He wasn't the first guy I have fired and he won't be the last.  I have never fired a submissive guy before.  It was a unique experience.  He was very sorry and offered to make amends would generally do anything to keep the job.  The lack of eye contact was amazing.  I was very nice about it and very firm shook his hand and gave him a few numbers of companies that are hiring where he might be more suited to the job.  

I've been fired before.  Actually I've been fired a lot. It can be tough to keep a job when your convinced that your boss needs to do what you tell him;)  And I have always been of the mindset that hey kool you fired me now I can get a better job. 

The whole encounter was extremely interesting.

9/14/2014 1:28:40 AM
Just adding to the enjoyment of my life.  Found out today that the life of a tire is 4 years.  4 flat tires in one day.  I know that sounds interesting so let me explain.  Lost the driver side front when the sidewall blew out.  Made it to the edge of the road and stopped.  Seems I picked up a slow leak in the passenger side front when I hit a nail.  Down two tires so I called a tow truck.  As he was strapping down the car he tightened one strap a little to tight and now I am down three tires.  (Not his fault, read on)  Got to the tire store and found that the tires were suffering dry rot being in the AZ heat.  Ended up buying 4 new tires. 

My warning to you.  Life of a tire is 4 years.  Mark a calendar or something.

8/7/2014 9:30:11 PM
Just thought I should mention.  I am feeling a lot better lately.  Doctor is not sure what I had but I seem to have gotten over it.  Ankle is healing pretty well too.  I may not be able to run a marathon but I am at least walking without the cane :)

4/20/2014 6:34:02 PM

Some things you just have to share.  Met a cute little thing today.  Her parents actually named her Bunny.  Thought I was going to die laughing.

1/23/2014 6:05:37 AM

Seems I managed to rip a tendon in my ankle... well off my ankle.  Looks like I will be spending a few years on a cane.  I am really starting to appreciate that country song.  "I ain't as good as I once was"


11/27/2013 9:54:17 PM

Met a nice girl here a few days ago.  Seemed like a nice kid.  Wish I could have helped her more.

1/1/2013 9:04:50 PM

Well that was a spectacular failure.  She was good to go right up until it was time to go then got cold feet.  Back to looking .   Sigh

9/26/2011 11:00:10 PM

Going to get her 10/10




4/28/2011 8:55:21 AM

Ok starting to de-arm my house.  My place is decorated in early Terran Arsenal and that just won't due.  She has a young son and I am pretty sure he does not need to play with all my dangerous junk.  Well it may be more than that.  She tells me I'm a lover not a fighter.  I was surprised to realise that since I met her this statement is true. 



4/6/2011 6:45:20 AM

Spent the weekend in the arms of a very special girl.  I am done searching I have found what I am looking for.  Was sick as a dog (hayfever) and still had a wonderful time.



3/18/2011 6:14:11 AM

Things are going rather well.  Heading out and the beginning of next month to find out if my search is over.

1/7/2011 8:46:43 PM

Removed the actively seeking from my profile tonight.  I will look in from time to time, but I may not be on here often.

12/11/2010 6:54:14 AM

Hey guys,


Been awhile since I have thought about this place.  Had a real scare with my dad so I was sleeping on the floor over there for awhile. 


But thats not the real reason I haven't been here.  Been talking with a brat I met here.  I am totally infatuated with her.  She is kool with my situation.  I rather think she will enjoy being looked after by my folks as well. 


Stay tuned for more updates!


7/26/2010 11:40:45 PM
Its almost midnight and I'm over giving my father email lessons because he has to check his email. 

If your interested in me you may be getting an entire family. 

7/13/2010 9:24:38 PM
Seems my life has changed a bit as of last weekend.  Will be dropping in on my folks alot more often to see what they need done.  So you must be presentable to them.

7/4/2010 8:37:38 AM

Happy Independance Day...


Enjoy your day of Freedom....


Happy Independance Day if your Canadian...


Happy Fourth of July...

YES thats it thats the one


6/20/2010 10:14:01 PM
Met a nice lady at the store today.  Could still see the bruises where her boyfriend grabbed her.  If it was consensual I would have admired his work.  As it was I spent an extra hour in the gym working out my frustrations.

I learned long ago that you can't help someone who doesn't want help.  I don't understand her choice but in the end it is her choice.

5/17/2010 12:48:26 AM

Got a call from a girl I was interested in awhile ago.  Asked me to come over and sort out a Dom.  She works at a hospital and the guys slave was giving birth.  He had the girl pierced and chained shut.  Now I can see this as fairly interesting but I doubt I will ever understand why he refused to unchain her for the birth. 

There are alot of quality people in this lifestyle.  But all it takes is one moron to give us all a bad name.

12/3/2009 6:21:02 AM
If age is just a number I have wasted my life.  All the knowledge I have aquired, the battles I have fought, women I have woo'ed and experience I have aquired mean nothing.

I'm old, I rejoyce in it.  Looking back I can't believe I am still alive.  Without the life I have had I would not be me.  I am aware that some I know would consider that an improvement :)

11/7/2009 1:27:52 AM
Found another piece of myself.  I had forgotten how much fun it is to be silly...

I've rewritten this a dozen times.  Entries filled with pain and loss, they have no place in my life. 

Thanks Babygirl

9/5/2009 2:05:42 AM

Had an experience tonight.  Was out with a buddy, we'd had our fun and were sitting on the tailgate of his truck kind of chatting back and forth with a group two cars over.  They break up and all leave and one of the girls comes over with a bottle of wild turkey asking us if we wanted it.  We started off saying no just put it in your trunk and drive home. She tells us she can't do that as she is under 21.  So we take the bottle.  She tells us the stuff is okay as she drank most of it.  She then climbs into her car to drive off.  We moved around to talk to her through the drivers window and verified that she was drunk and intending to drive.  She was.

We put an end to that plan and I drove her home and my buddy followed.  Not sure what bothers me more.  Her blatant disregard for other people or me not waking up her folks.

8/27/2009 8:30:51 PM
There are days its just fun to be a Dom.  Ran across a girl at Wallyworld, she had the BDSM wheel tattooed at the top of her spine. 
Walked up behind her and whispered "On your knees girl"  She has good reflexes, was on her knees before I could straighten up. 

Been awhile since I've seen a girl turn that shade of red.  (Chuckles)

8/25/2009 2:19:22 AM
Its interesting that if you read enough profiles it becomes noticble that there are several distinct types of profiles.  I'm beginning to believe there are four or five people that account for most of the fake profiles on CM.  Least the female ones I don't read the male ones :)

7/5/2009 11:17:20 PM
Well now that last entry seems to have gotten a responce.  I have been called several names had my parentage questioned and had a few others mention what an insightful remark it was into BDSM.  But a few actually got the joke and to those I applaud. 

7/4/2009 7:39:37 AM
I wonder if a slave should celebrate  "Independance" day ;)

7/2/2009 1:53:40 AM
Found out tonight that a girl blocked me.  I am very surprised to say it bugs me.  I am very good about taking no for an answer afterall if we were all kinked the same we'd be vanilla. 

Guess I will just chalk it up as one of those things.  And yet a simple "No thankyou." would have sufficed.

6/30/2009 9:21:48 AM

6/29/2009 1:51:00 AM

Always makes me wonder when I see some guy has viewed my profile.

5/28/2009 10:38:15 PM

Seems I am still looking.

2/18/2008 7:51:57 PM
Think I've found my girl.  She seems purrrfect I'll keep you posted.

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