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Hetero Male Dominant, 56,  Phoenix, Arizona
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Been here along time. I guess a three time loser will never learn. Been through 4 girls now on this site. I'm thinking that's on me. I need to change. Well I've been working on it. So what I am looking for has changed as well. I'm looking for a service oriented girl. If you have a high sex drive I'm not what you want. If your into doting over your man and pleasing him then I may be for you. I enjoy spanking so it helps if you're into that. Covid was tough on me. I went from an extremely active lifestyle to not having a life. On oxygen and I rest up to take a nap. In my work life, I've been a city inspector, a remodeling contractor, maintenance worker, referee, office gopher, bouncer, phone solicitor, tool salesman, electronic technician, butter packer, electro-mechanical technician, arcade repairman and a truck driver. In my spare time I spent a year as a king in a medieval game.












 Dominant Male



 6' 2"

 300 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Submissive Female

Sub/Sub Couples

 Lives For:

 Amusement Parks

 Antique Shows

 Renaissance Faires


 Martial Arts


 You wearing my collar

 Being Massaged

 Obedience Training

 Spanking you

 Speech Restrictions

 Arcade Games

 Card Games



 Historical Shows



 Fine Dining

 Flea Markets


 Garage Sales




 Horseback Riding


 Ultimate Frisbee


 Blindfolding you

 Body Worship


 Breast Play


 Canes and Crops

 Corner Time

 Eye Contact Restrictions


 Hair Pulling

 Placing you on a leash

 Massage (Giving)

 Mental Bondage


 Orgasm Control

 Outdoor Bondage

 Pony/Puppy Roleplay

 Role Playing

 Sensory Play


 Suspension Bondage



 Wax Play

 Board Games

 Role Playing Games

 Science Fiction

 Body Art






 Intellectual Discourse






 1950s Lifestyle



 Lifestyle BDSM

 Folk Music




 Musical Theater


 Surf Boarding


 Wind Surfing



 Electrical Play



 Rear End Play

 Fire Play


 Selecting the clothes you wear

 Maid / Butler Service

 Plastic Wrap Bondage

 Rubber Fetish

 Vacuum Stimulation

 Comedy Shows

 TV Sports

 Alternative Medicine

 Art Collecting



 Online Auctions






 Paranormal Phenomena



 Victorian Lifestyle



 Art Galleries

 Bar Hopping


 Going to the Opera




 Skate Boarding




 Foot Worship

 Housework Service

 Medical fetish play



 True Crime



 Candle Making







 Old Guard


 Working Out

 Curious About:

 Scuba Diving








 G-spot Stimulation

 Erotic touch

 Masks on Partner



 Sensation Play

 Public Play


 Theatrical Scenes




 Online Chatrooms

 Online RPGs

 Puzzle Games

 Romance Novels

 Simulation Games



 Soap Making







 Bird Watching

 Coffee Shops





 Local BDSM Community

 Gas Masks

 Masks (Wearing)

 Modern Primitivism


 Cross Stitch



 Hard Limits:



 Oral Service


 TV News

 Conservative Politics

 Liberal Politics

 Libertarian Politics

 Political Activism

 Female Sovereignty

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Journal Entries:
5/6/2023 12:22:44 PM

Getting my sea legs back under me.  Its slower than I'd like but isn't that always the case.

3/24/2023 2:22:33 PM

Saw the Doc again today,

Leg is all healed so now its just a matter of increasing what I am doing.  

3/10/2023 10:09:26 AM

Took all the time to write this so I thought I'd save it here.  


Two explorer's are deep in Africa when they are captured by head hunters.  The head hunters bind them each to a pole and carry them for 3 days over hills across a river and through the forest where they finally come to the village.


At the village they are untied and thrown into a cage.  That night the villagers throw a massive party where they feast drink alcohol and dance.  


At the height of the festivities the Chief calls for silence and approaches the cage.  Our two explorers see this huge guy standing about 6' 8" tall approach them and they begin to quake.


The Chief points at our first explorer with his big hammock like hands and yells in this deep voice that carries to all ends of the village.


"You! Death or RooRoo?


The first explorer squeaks out " I don't want to die, I'll take RooRoo!"


The Chief turns back to the village and yells "ROOROO!!!"


The tribe goes insane with cheering dancing and drinking and our explorer is pulled from the cage stripped and thrown face down over a log and every man in the village jumps his bones.


The Chief then stomps back to the cage and points at the other explorer.


"You!!  Death or RooRoo?"


The explorer with a look of fear on his face yells back.  "Screw that Rooroo deal I choose death!"


The Chief turns around raising one  raising one massive paw and pronounces the sentence.




And the crowd goes wild!


2/27/2023 3:01:03 PM

Saw the Doc today about my foot.  Not going as well as my neck another 4 to 6 weeks to completely heal.  He does say its looking good though.

2/24/2023 9:53:10 PM

Well here's a turn in my life.  Work chose to separate themselves from me today.  I've been on Long-term Disability and I will probably stay on disability until I turn 65.  I've been taking up a job slot by doing this they can fill my spot.  I've quit jobs, been laid off, fired, actually I've been fired a lot I tend to Dom everyone and a lot of my bosses have resented that.  But this is the first time I've been separated.  Makes it sound like were still married and just seeing other jobs.  LOL

2/22/2023 1:37:13 PM

Still working by on the neck but I'm able to drive again.  Walking more which makes me feel better.  Now its just a matter of time and effort to get back to where I was.

2/13/2023 11:53:28 AM

Just for the record Physical Therapy SUCKS!

1/27/2023 1:00:25 AM

Had the Eply procedure yesterday and it worked no more getting dizzy when I look around.  Hopefully I can start getting my strength back

1/27/2023 12:58:27 AM

Just got back from the neurologists office and they say my neck is healed.  Big relief.  Now I can go get an Eply procedure and see if that fixes my dizziness issues.

1/13/2023 11:40:24 PM

Well its taking awhile but I'm starting to walk again.  Still having dizzy spells and my neck is still an issue.

11/22/2022 4:16:54 AM

Broke my leg and my c3 vertebrae in my neck.  Spent the last month in the hospital.  Moving onto therapy.  We will see how it goes.

11/5/2021 6:42:28 AM

Thought I would update my profile with some new pics.  When my profile reappears you can see how handsome I am.


When I was being admitted to the hospital the nurse taking my vitals caught my attention.  Older gal quite self assured and funny.  Funny is very attractive to me.  I asked if she was married and she said no she had just divorced her husband and the decree had just come through that week.  I looked at her grinned that grin all guys have when we're propositioning a girl and asked her if she would marry me.  She looked me right in the eye and said. 

"Nope I just got rid of one deadbeat husband, I don't need another."


I was just one upped Lol.  That comment just made my year.

11/4/2021 11:45:48 PM


Noticed that journals were working again.

Seems to be slot less people here since covid.

Covid came extremely close to killing me.  I'll bear the marks till my dying day.  If ever i should live that long.

2/23/2017 2:46:59 AM
I was responding to a question about my top 5 rules.  So I thought I would leave them here.


This is from a Daddy/dom viewpoint.

1) She is not alloweed to put herself down.  If I think she is worth my time I require that she thinks so as well.

2) No swearing.  I expect her to behave like a lady

3) 8 hours of sleep.  I require that she gets enough rest.  I prefer a 9 pm bedtime but thats not always feasible on the hours I live

4) Balanced diet.  I actually like bigger girls but I require that mine eats well.  Healthy mind-healthy body etc.

5) Respect, I require that she Sir or ma'am's everyone.  Regaurdless of age.  (Old Sensi of mine taught me that and I do it as well)


9/8/2016 7:57:32 AM
Fired another guy today.  This was more fun than the last few I've had to axe.  Ex-army guy with a 5 cent head.  He brought a buddy and he took it personal.  I have to admit I enjoyed the skirmish.  I'm old and slow but these guys just couldn't fight.  Chuckles. 

2/23/2016 4:54:49 AM
Ran across this on another profile.

Resonates with me.

2/14/2015 8:34:12 AM
Happy Singles Awareness day!

10/19/2014 7:31:26 AM
Friday ended up being a unique day.  I fired a guy.  He was just a trainee and he was really not cut out for the job.  He wasn't the first guy I have fired and he won't be the last.  I have never fired a submissive guy before.  It was a unique experience.  He was very sorry and offered to make amends would generally do anything to keep the job.  The lack of eye contact was amazing.  I was very nice about it and very firm shook his hand and gave him a few numbers of companies that are hiring where he might be more suited to the job.  

I've been fired before.  Actually I've been fired a lot. It can be tough to keep a job when your convinced that your boss needs to do what you tell him;)  And I have always been of the mindset that hey kool you fired me now I can get a better job. 

The whole encounter was extremely interesting.

9/14/2014 1:28:40 AM
Just adding to the enjoyment of my life.  Found out today that the life of a tire is 4 years.  4 flat tires in one day.  I know that sounds interesting so let me explain.  Lost the driver side front when the sidewall blew out.  Made it to the edge of the road and stopped.  Seems I picked up a slow leak in the passenger side front when I hit a nail.  Down two tires so I called a tow truck.  As he was strapping down the car he tightened one strap a little to tight and now I am down three tires.  (Not his fault, read on)  Got to the tire store and found that the tires were suffering dry rot being in the AZ heat.  Ended up buying 4 new tires. 

My warning to you.  Life of a tire is 4 years.  Mark a calendar or something.

8/7/2014 9:30:11 PM
Just thought I should mention.  I am feeling a lot better lately.  Doctor is not sure what I had but I seem to have gotten over it.  Ankle is healing pretty well too.  I may not be able to run a marathon but I am at least walking without the cane :)

4/20/2014 6:34:02 PM

Some things you just have to share.  Met a cute little thing today.  Her parents actually named her Bunny.  Thought I was going to die laughing.

1/23/2014 6:05:37 AM

Seems I managed to rip a tendon in my ankle... well off my ankle.  Looks like I will be spending a few years on a cane.  I am really starting to appreciate that country song.  "I ain't as good as I once was"


11/27/2013 9:54:17 PM

Met a nice girl here a few days ago.  Seemed like a nice kid.  Wish I could have helped her more.

1/1/2013 9:04:50 PM

Well that was a spectacular failure.  She was good to go right up until it was time to go then got cold feet.  Back to looking .   Sigh

9/26/2011 11:00:10 PM

Going to get her 10/10




4/28/2011 8:55:21 AM

Ok starting to de-arm my house.  My place is decorated in early Terran Arsenal and that just won't due.  She has a young son and I am pretty sure he does not need to play with all my dangerous junk.  Well it may be more than that.  She tells me I'm a lover not a fighter.  I was surprised to realise that since I met her this statement is true. 



4/6/2011 6:45:20 AM

Spent the weekend in the arms of a very special girl.  I am done searching I have found what I am looking for.  Was sick as a dog (hayfever) and still had a wonderful time.



3/18/2011 6:14:11 AM

Things are going rather well.  Heading out and the beginning of next month to find out if my search is over.

1/7/2011 8:46:43 PM

Removed the actively seeking from my profile tonight.  I will look in from time to time, but I may not be on here often.

12/11/2010 6:54:14 AM

Hey guys,


Been awhile since I have thought about this place.  Had a real scare with my dad so I was sleeping on the floor over there for awhile. 


But thats not the real reason I haven't been here.  Been talking with a brat I met here.  I am totally infatuated with her.  She is kool with my situation.  I rather think she will enjoy being looked after by my folks as well. 


Stay tuned for more updates!


7/26/2010 11:40:45 PM
Its almost midnight and I'm over giving my father email lessons because he has to check his email. 

If your interested in me you may be getting an entire family. 

7/13/2010 9:24:38 PM
Seems my life has changed a bit as of last weekend.  Will be dropping in on my folks alot more often to see what they need done.  So you must be presentable to them.

7/4/2010 8:37:38 AM

Happy Independance Day...


Enjoy your day of Freedom....


Happy Independance Day if your Canadian...


Happy Fourth of July...

YES thats it thats the one


6/20/2010 10:14:01 PM
Met a nice lady at the store today.  Could still see the bruises where her boyfriend grabbed her.  If it was consensual I would have admired his work.  As it was I spent an extra hour in the gym working out my frustrations.

I learned long ago that you can't help someone who doesn't want help.  I don't understand her choice but in the end it is her choice.

5/17/2010 12:48:26 AM

Got a call from a girl I was interested in awhile ago.  Asked me to come over and sort out a Dom.  She works at a hospital and the guys slave was giving birth.  He had the girl pierced and chained shut.  Now I can see this as fairly interesting but I doubt I will ever understand why he refused to unchain her for the birth. 

There are alot of quality people in this lifestyle.  But all it takes is one moron to give us all a bad name.

12/3/2009 6:21:02 AM
If age is just a number I have wasted my life.  All the knowledge I have aquired, the battles I have fought, women I have woo'ed and experience I have aquired mean nothing.

I'm old, I rejoyce in it.  Looking back I can't believe I am still alive.  Without the life I have had I would not be me.  I am aware that some I know would consider that an improvement :)

11/7/2009 1:27:52 AM
Found another piece of myself.  I had forgotten how much fun it is to be silly...

I've rewritten this a dozen times.  Entries filled with pain and loss, they have no place in my life. 

Thanks Babygirl

9/5/2009 2:05:42 AM

Had an experience tonight.  Was out with a buddy, we'd had our fun and were sitting on the tailgate of his truck kind of chatting back and forth with a group two cars over.  They break up and all leave and one of the girls comes over with a bottle of wild turkey asking us if we wanted it.  We started off saying no just put it in your trunk and drive home. She tells us she can't do that as she is under 21.  So we take the bottle.  She tells us the stuff is okay as she drank most of it.  She then climbs into her car to drive off.  We moved around to talk to her through the drivers window and verified that she was drunk and intending to drive.  She was.

We put an end to that plan and I drove her home and my buddy followed.  Not sure what bothers me more.  Her blatant disregard for other people or me not waking up her folks.

8/27/2009 8:30:51 PM
There are days its just fun to be a Dom.  Ran across a girl at Wallyworld, she had the BDSM wheel tattooed at the top of her spine. 
Walked up behind her and whispered "On your knees girl"  She has good reflexes, was on her knees before I could straighten up. 

Been awhile since I've seen a girl turn that shade of red.  (Chuckles)

8/25/2009 2:19:22 AM
Its interesting that if you read enough profiles it becomes noticble that there are several distinct types of profiles.  I'm beginning to believe there are four or five people that account for most of the fake profiles on CM.  Least the female ones I don't read the male ones :)

7/5/2009 11:17:20 PM
Well now that last entry seems to have gotten a responce.  I have been called several names had my parentage questioned and had a few others mention what an insightful remark it was into BDSM.  But a few actually got the joke and to those I applaud. 

7/4/2009 7:39:37 AM
I wonder if a slave should celebrate  "Independance" day ;)

7/2/2009 1:53:40 AM
Found out tonight that a girl blocked me.  I am very surprised to say it bugs me.  I am very good about taking no for an answer afterall if we were all kinked the same we'd be vanilla. 

Guess I will just chalk it up as one of those things.  And yet a simple "No thankyou." would have sufficed.

6/30/2009 9:21:48 AM

6/29/2009 1:51:00 AM

Always makes me wonder when I see some guy has viewed my profile.

5/28/2009 10:38:15 PM

Seems I am still looking.

2/18/2008 7:51:57 PM
Think I've found my girl.  She seems purrrfect I'll keep you posted.

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