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| I have given this website a couple tries over the past year and have met with no success. This is attempt #3 and my user name says it all: One More Go.
I am a BBW with no BDSM experience. What I know about this life comes from reading (not Fifty Shades of Grey), videos and my own desires. But there is more to this lifestyle than sex. I am a woman with a strong personality and strong ideas about life, religion, politics and family. I am not looking for someone to crush that personality or to alter those ideas. I like those aspects of my life. I like who I am. If you're hoping to find a doormat and pushover, then I am definitely not for you.
With that said, here are a few things I am looking for:
Long Term--I'm not excessively experienced with sex. I am selective and careful. Because of this, I'm not on here to jump into the bed of just anyone.
Taking Things Slowly--I want to get to know anyone I meet on here, not just on their thoughts on the Lifestyle, but in their general life. I want to make sure that we have a connection, commonalities, and similar goals before I enter into a relationship. In return, I'd like anyone who contacts me to be interested in long term.
1950s Household--We all want to live the American Dream. Part of that dream, for me, has always been serving my husband in the home. Now, this lifestyle isn't mandatory, it is definitely negotiable; but there is an appeal to me in creating a 'Leave it to Beaver' life, wearing dresses and heels, looking immaculate and being my man's little slut behind doors. I am so far from being this sort of person (I only own two dresses and they're ill fitting and rarely worn!), but I should like to think that the man I am with is capable of 'taking me in hand' and help guide me toward being his perfect lady.
Including Weight Loss--Part of my major flaws is, truthfully, being unmotivated. I want to be healthy and active (and for my man to be healthy and active), but I need someone to push me along. I am terrible at making the right choices when it comes to my health. I think the right dominate man can help change those bad habits and keep me on a healthy path. So if your fetish is big women, then look else where. I want someone who plans to make me better than I am.
Keeping things 'behind doors'--I like living the straight and narrow life. Having an open BDSM relationship doesn't interest me. Keeping this lifestyle private is, in my opinion, part of the appeal. There is something naughty about the secrecy. That doesn't mean we have to keep everything in the bedroom. I am definitely open to ideas.
Gentleman--I intend to be your very proper lady, I think the least you could be is a gentleman. This can be defined in many different ways, but mostly, it means you are capable of being kind, and not just to me. You most possess patience. This is a new experience for me and I will have to grow into the role.
No Sadists--I don't like pain. I don't get off on it. When you punish me, it will really be a punishment. Therefore, no sadists, please. There are elements of pain that can definitely be utilized in a mutually pleasurable manner, but I'm not looking to be beaten and tortured. There are women on here who want that, but not me.
Looking to Negotiate--Much about this lifestyle, to me, is negotiable. I am inexperienced, so a good deal of it I am at least willing to try. However, I put a stopper at anything illegal or immoral. I am also not interested in anything disgusting. My health is my top concern (and should be the top concern of my man) so no needles, fire, scat or asphyxiation.
I Hate Texting and Webcams--I hate texting. For me, it is a form of sending quick messages, not getting to know someone. I don't mind webcams, but please don't expect cybersex. That only makes me feel awkward and uncomfortable. Plus, I have a roommate and this house carries sound like you wouldn't believe. That also makes me feel awkward and uncomfortable.
About Me--I am a self-proclaimed nerd. Always have been. I love history and Star Wars, Harry Potter and Doctor Who. Someone capable of having this little nerdy fandom's is definitely a plus. It isn't necessary, but I'd like someone who understands it, at least.
I love my family. I'm not looking to be swept away and saved from anything. What I seek is a real connection with someone I can actually bring home to my family and feel comfortable doing so.
I have an untapped adventurous spirit. I want to go out and have fun, take hikes, pick up unique hobbies, travel and experience life! My ideal partner would feel the same. In fact, there is a long quote attached as a journal entry that basically sums up everything I feel about life.
I am, ideally, looking for someone older than me and within 15 years of my age. I am definitely willing to consider men older than that, but there will have to be a real connection.
Sorry this was so long, but it was truly written from the heart. If any of it caught your interest, please send a picture and a thoughtful message. I am interested in communication at this point.
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The paradox of our time in history is that we have taller buildings, but shorter tempers; wider freeways, but narrower viewpoints.
We spend more, but have less; we buy more, but enjoy it less. We have bigger houses and smaller families; more conveniences, but less time; we have more degrees, but less sense; more knowledge, but less judgment; more experts, but more problems; more medicine, but less wellness.
We drink too much, smoke too much, spend too recklessly, laugh too little, drive too fast, get too angry too quickly, stay up too late, get up too tired, read too seldom, watch TV too much, and pray too seldom.
We have multiplied our possessions, but reduced our values. We talk too much, love too seldom, and hate too often. We've learned how to make a living, but not a life; we've added years to life, not life to years.
We've been all the way to the moon and back, but have trouble crossing the street to meet the new neighbor. We've conquered outer space, but not inner space. We've done larger things, but not better things. We've cleaned up the air, but polluted the soul. We've split the atom, but not our prejudice. We write more, but learn less. We plan more, but accomplish less.
We've learned to rush, but not to wait. We build more computers to hold more information to produce more copies than ever, but have less communication.
These are the times of fast foods and slow digestion; tall men, and short character; steep profits, and shallow relationships. These are the times of world peace, but domestic warfare; more leisure, but less fun; more kinds of food, but less nutrition. These are days of two incomes, but more divorce; of fancier houses, but broken homes.
These are days of quick trips, disposable diapers, throw-away morality, one-night stands, overweight bodies, and pills that do everything from cheer to quiet, to kill.
It is a time when there is much in the show window and nothing in the stockroom; a time when technology can bring this letter to you, and a time when you can choose either to share this insight . . . .or to just hit delete.
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