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Want an outwardly vanilla appearing relationship.
Almost 10 years now with interest in the lifestyle and all that comes with it.
Looking for a woman that is comfortable with herself, comfortable with her body, comfortable with total submission, including objectification, humiliation, degradation, mild to moderate pain but nothing extreme in that realm. 24/7 preferred. Much is negotiable depending upon the dynamic and our own interactions.
Not looking for a doormat, it is still important to me that you have your own thoughts, opinions, and that we can interact with each other and contribute to each other's well being. I feel it is possible to experience intense bdsm play and still love and respect one another, and this is important. Just because you accept a gag and shackles naked at my feet for my amusement for any time period I feel you are deserving, doesn't mean we can't spend a nice evening out to dinner at an upscale restaurant or holding hands and catching a movie or an evening walk.
I'm comfortable with who I am and how I live, I don't use bdsm to compensate for any of my own inadequacies. In the real world I am type A and always in charge, I don't feel I need to sacrifice this in a relationship. That being said, I still believe in old fashioned romance and a 1950's type dynamic when we aren't deeper in play. I have a job, a car, a life, family I care about. This is a side of myself I am not ashamed of. The same should hopefully be said of you.
I look forward to chatting
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