Collarspace.com

OnTopInCharge

OnTopInCharge - photo 1
Just a quick note, I was LivingLaarge on this site, but for some reason can't log in anymore, so if you sent me a message there, please re-send it to this new ID. Also if you'd like to see more you can see me on FL with the same user name (LivingLaarge) Well, I am very approachable, so if you're interested in talking, just let me know.

I am a VERY strict and stern Dom, when / if I become YOUR Dom, other wise, I'm a person just like you.

And I won't become your Dom until we talk and get to know each other.

So if you are submissive, contact me and you never know what will happen.

As for what I'm looking for... Someone that has a good head on their shoulders, someone that I can make a connection with, and have conversations with, go on long drives, or hang around the house and watch a movie.

I like some intelligence, have opinions, but have reasons for your opinions.

Someone that is at least HWP.

I want to create a partnership, but still bend you to my will. Eventually I will take more and more control, and I expect to be obeyed. You will always have a say, and you will always be a part of defining our relationship, but on a day to day basis you will do my bidding.

Not looking or a slave, but definitions vary a LOT, so if you consider yourself a slave, don't rule yourself out, let's see what that word means to you.

Other Stuff: I'm a light hearted guy, with a good core of friends, and good family relationships.
I have a good sense of humor, and try not to take things too seriously. (Unless you disobey me, then that's different.) : )

I have many interests, including music, (playing) sports, studying systems and processes, reading (I like biographies), writing, discussing cultural situations and the like.

As far as my "style" of Dominance; I like getting my fingernails dirty digging into the inner recesses of your mind. You can look in the writing section of my profile (labeled "last week") to see an email exchange that I had with a very nice submissive woman. There's a little "tooting my own horn" factor in posting this email (with permission), but I think it's worth it to give those that might be interested in me the opportunity to see how I think and some insight on how I like to Dom.

That should do for now.

ONE LAST IMPORTANT THING... I know for many the natural tendency is to look though the list of fetishes, and find your favorites, and then go Oh Yeah! or Uh no, but I am flexible and open to experimentation and growth. And my personal belief is that there is a LOT of give and take in order to make one's dream relationship come true, so if you don't see it ASK, it may or may not be my favorite, but if it's yours, there's a definite possibility I'd be willing to explore it or just plain do it. Heck we may even explore something new together and create a wonderful special bond.

That should do for now.

Happy Hunting


PS I am truly looking for a LTR - but am very open to play until I find "the one"
gipsy82
 
 Age: 56
 Lansing, Michigan