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| True connection is at the heart of what we’re all chasing here. Without it- anything in this life becomes as hollow as vanilla. Funny how so very few folks here actually have the ability to “connect”. Sure, everyone talks about it. It’s part of the vernacular, right? So very few have any real clue what it means.
I could do without the endless games. Really- I could. I’m no “player”. BDSM is no “game” to me. But I remain here because every great once in a while, someone truly extraordinary shows-up! If that’s you- by all means DO get in touch! ;) Before the players chase you away!
I’ve been a practicing Dominant since age 19. That’s decades developing my trueself. Trust I know who I am. It’s hard to be meaningfully dominant to anyone else at 19 – without proper guidance. I got it. I’ve been trying to pay it forward since- Just as those I was instructed by were doing.
Now just what am I “into”?…Fair question. Simple answer: “you”. If you’re real, authentic, and your need is true. In that case we should talk. Yep. Talk. It always begins there. It’s a fact that many so-called “doms” don’t get that all D/s relationships are “relationships” first and foremost. Connection first. Then much becomes possible.
Connection can lead to lots of things. Some intense “doing” when the time is right. Always followed by growing. It can be fast and furious like a storm…or a warm breeze that blows through a lifetime… At least that’s my experience- so far. I’ve got some living left to do.
Being new to D/s is no crime. What is a crime is how someone new gets treated in places like this. I can help you avoid the feeding frenzy you’re going to create. It usually begins with spanking. You need to spread yourself across my lap and discover in the experience what is there for you. You need/crave structure, rules ,goals, accountability. What else do you need to explore? I can lead you there. And keep you safe - physically and emotionally.
I’m married. She’s quite domme herself and not here with me. Business is keeping us several States apart. I have a life partner. I’m not available to be yours. My situation does present me with the opportunity to invest in the right connection. It’s the growth, connection and intense intimacy I’m after.
On the D/s skills side, I’m accomplished. But you be the judge. I’ve owned nine slaves and trained many more. Can use a flogger in each hand at the same time and tie a mean knot. I have a knack for working with couples of all sorts, especially sub/cuck. Very little I don’t have some experience with. DD/lg is just the sweetest thing! But then there’s this place in me that I go to in response to a woman’s need for intense hard use…I am proven to go as deep and dark and hard as you can possibly go yourself. And then just a bit further. You’ll just have to trust me on that-for now.
I’ve got the ability to travel some. Especially now in the Great Lakes, where I'm from. Age, race, experience level, marital status don’t matter as much as your authenticity. That’s a very rare quality here. Being height/weight proportionate matters. I can transform you in that regard.
Just remember, absent the connection, all the BDSM jargon, gear, and protocol is just window dressing on an empty house. My mind and heart are very open to authentic folks. The rest of you? Ya’ll enjoy your games.
The pic is me, from behind and very recent. You can turn me around to face you. Just connect. I’m pleased to exchange face photos with you as our connection develops. I have no time for or interest in pic collectors
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