What does one say about themself in one of these things? I much prefer conversations but I will gie it a try.

I am a 37 year old dominant that abhors labels. Unfortunately within this lifestyle labels can be used to give a basic idea if your thoughts on M/s could possible mingle with theirs. With that in mind I will try to give the best idea that I can for you.

To me M/s is not a simple list of ones kinks. It can be just that for people that are simply kinky bedroom players but for those of us that go beyond that the kinks describe so little of who we are in the dynamic. So if you are simply a bedroom kinkster we truely will not get along too well.

With that said what is my ideal of M/s? The best I can describe it is a hybrid 1950s lifestyle with modified TPE and some light to medium kink thrown in for spice. To me it is a way of living. It is how you enteract with someone on a fulltime basis not simply when you are horny. It is very service oriented to me. The dominant is there to care for, lead, teach, nurture his or her sub/slave while the submissive is there to serve, please and complete the duality of dominant and submissive dynamic. Let us be a little bit real here too. Unless you happen to be a relatively short drive from me moving things to real time will not be rushed. Time must be taken to get to know and take reasonable care that its right before either of us go trapsing cross country to meet for coffee.

Ok kinks, we all have them so I will through a few of mine out. I do enjoy binding a girl, cutting off her movement but I am not into intricate shibari and the like. I much prefer quick release straps and things that can be undone easily without the use of a knife. I enjoy giving OTK spankings, light to moderate caning, flogging, strappings. My favorite though is sensation control and orgasm control. Some nipple play but really I am not a huge fetecist. My sade is pretty mild so if you are looking to be beaten senseless and locked in a cage for a week you will be bored with me.

Outside of all the kink stuff I am an easy going person. Some dominants belive they have to excude some aura of machismo to be dominant, some subs think that as well I guess. I do not follow that line. Im very laid back, I do not take myself too seriously and can laugh at myself with ease. While I expect a girl that has given herself to me to be obedient I am not protocol heavy. We can get lost in such things. We are not developing a religion we are building a relationship. I of course love a girl on her knees, there is a beauty too it but constantly falling to her knees anytime I come around? Please, theres just no need for it.

So what am I looking for. Many things but if we are talking simply the girl that would ultimately be mine mind body and soul she will of course have to have read all the above and believe it falls inline with her submissive style. I would prefer her younger then I am but I have no strict age definitions. She must want an actual relationship not a game. While it would be nice if she had experience to see waht she likes and does not like she can be newish to the scene so long as she has put some real thought into things. In the meantime fun play partners are not out of the question.

Want to know anything else, write. Send something more then Hi, tell me a bit about yourself. What you want out of all this. If you just want to play and explore, say so. If you want a true LTR within the dynamic matching to what I listed above say it.

Some quick hit facts

Favorite movie - The Illusionist
Favorite TV show - Sons of Anarchy
Favorite book - Imzadi (it was a star trek book back in my geeky late teens but was more a love story and well written)
Favorite color(s) - Black, Purple
Favorite food - Fetuccini Alfredo
Favorite car - 1937 Cord
Favorite song - Johnny Cash's remake of Dirt
Religion - none
Politically - all over the place but prolly learn liberal on more issues then not.
Prefer the city to the woods
Prefer 1 on 1 or small groups to large gatherings
Prefer a night in cluddling on the couch to a night out in a club
Musically Im all over the place but dont really care for country or gangster rap.
Would love to live in Europe someday for atleast a year to see how life is outside of the US.



Have a great day and good luck in your search