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Hetero Female Submissive,  Gainesville area, Florida
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Hello to All, I am a mature educated woman, single and unattached physically, legaly, emotionally and financially. I have acquired the normal amount of baggage that mature woman would naturally have. (It’s not the amount of baggage its how you carry it ... read that somewhere) I am not submissive to the entire world, I am submissive to a man that I am in a relationship with, as long as he is an honourable man. I love to have the emotional and mental side of M/s. A slave is what ever the two involved in the relationship say it is, there is no * universal.. One definition fits all * slave or sub, I will never be slave to all. I take the time to exercise everyday, and to eat as healthy as possible (about 90% of the time) I expect a Master or Dom to do the same, to respect his body, to exhibit control over himself.
I am not a piece of meat, a pig, a pet, or a dog, I am a woman, I give respect, and I expect it to be given back. I am not an object or an IT. I am a woman, a woman that will do what she can to please the man/Dom/Master in her life, and a woman that knows what it takes to make a relationship work, and yes even a BDSM relationship requires work from both parties, (well unless you’re seeking a very short term thing, shrugs, then no work is necessary)
To me, I would not do the * session or play date* thing because I find that the * pain* is the most intimate of things to share with someone, and I would not share this with just anyone. He must be someone I am in a real and meaningful relationship with. Along the same line, I do not have to * share * a man, I would rather be without a man than to be in that sort of situation. I would want a man that thought I was more than enough for him, if he felt he needed to have more then I am truly not the one to please him. To all those that do not feel I am their view of a slave, or they think I am too opinionated, or wrong, please do us both a favor and keep the opinion to yourself, just hide me so that you never have to see my profile again, ;) NOTE: there are millions of definitions of what a Master/Dom is too, usually two do not completely agree on this either. I truly don’t need or want to hear your negative opinion, I have said who I am and what I am, if I am not near what you want, then go on to the next profile, I am sure you will find what you seek. Thank you all. Reposted from a Dom Profile; thought it was very unique: from the preface to "THE IMAGE" a little insight from Pauline Re'age "a man in love-if he has any perception at all, soon realizes his error: he is the master, so it seems, but only if his lady friend permits it the need to interchange the roles as slave and master for the sake of the relationship is never more clearly demonstrated than in the course of an affair. Never is the complicity between victim and executioner more essential. Even chained down on her knees, begging for mercy, it is the woman finally, who is in command. She knows thi only too well. Her power increases directly in proportion to her apparent self-abasement. But with a single look, she can call a halt to everything, make it all crumble into dust. Once this is clearly understood by both parties at the cost of mutual reappraisal, the game can go on. But its meaning will have changed The all powerful slave, dragging herself at her master's heel's is really the god. The man is only her priest, living in fear and trembling of her displeasure. his sole function is to freeform the various ceremonies that around the sacred object. If he falls from grace, everything is lost.











 Submissive Female

 Gainesville area 


 5' 7"

 135 lbs





Actively Seeking:

Dominant Male

Friends Only


 Hiking (Expert)

 Walking (Expert)


 Musical Theater

 Renaissance Faires




 1950s Lifestyle

 Gorean Lifestyle

 Lifestyle BDSM


 Local BDSM Community


 Curious About:





 Outdoor Bondage




 Hard Limits:



 Medical Play

 Needle Play

 Pony/Puppy Roleplay

 Public Play




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Journal Entries:
7/13/2014 6:15:15 PM
In hagerstown MD  

7/4/2014 10:46:04 AM
headed to Laredo on Sunday  ;)  

2/27/2014 8:22:12 AM

If you are more than ten years younger than me, odds are you are in my * bulk mail*  and i only look at those when i am bored.   ;)   And if I chat with you it is not in hopes of finding a connection.  Personally anything over ten years in age difference is a bit creepy,  when  men or women do it,  just creepy to me.  DO NOT have a fetish about  *young men *  I am not into the whole  * incest*  fantasy.   So please,  I appreciate the compliment,  but  I am 57 years old,  and if your young enough to my child , or friends of my children,  I would truely not have much in common with you .

2/27/2014 6:18:40 AM

Please remember you are only a *Master *  in my eyes IF I recognize you as one, by your actions, words, and whats in your heart UNTIL then you are but a mere man, so please show some control, and do not get the idea that you can bark orders at me.  It really just shows your lack of control and knowledge.  That is not a way to be recognized as a * DOM or  Master*    You can not just  belt out  * I am Master*  and be given the respect that you seek.   Walk the walk,  not just talk the talk,  and it starts by the two people involved in the chat acknowledging and recognizing the other as a Dom or Master  and  Sub or Slave , until then......  just  two people chatting.   ;)  

12/10/2013 10:41:46 PM

NOTE NAME:   I have been a slave to but  ONE.   Will I ever be that again?  Who knows... will any other man inspire that sort of respect and those very deep feelings in me?  Sometimes I doubt it.  Maybe it is the past because nothing can be that again,  I do not know.  I know I  am not, nor will not ever be a SLAVE to the wrong man.  I will take my time, get to know any man and decide then if HE deserves that sort of respect or not.  I have found that what I had was rare and may not come again.  So I do not truely seek that sort of deep and meaningful commitment, I know that maybe it only comes once in a lifetime.  I cherrish the memory, I do not look to reproduce it,  to remake it.  What happens will happen.  But  PLEASE NOTE the NAME...  I have been a slave to but  ONE.  

10/24/2013 3:18:22 AM

My personality is who I am,  my ATTITUDE depends on who you are.....

7/29/2013 4:05:22 AM

Hey Hey  with all the fence  sitting that  goes on,  especially here on  CM,  I  guess I need to note,  "IF"  you are  bi sexual  ... we can be friends ..  no more.  I can never have a Master that I can vision him sucking a cock,   * shakes head*   just  does not work for me (  glad you enjoy it,  but  would just not do it for me )  AND  If  you are into submitting to someone ( or have submitted ) ,  we can be FRIENDS.  I also can not envision myself submitting to a man that in my mind I can see him submitting.   * shakes head* 

Those would both be visions that I would grow to see every time I was around him,  and that would NOT be a good thing.  I am honest atleast.   I  know  some will not like this but  each person is definitely allowed to decide what they like and what they don't like,  

If you are into those things,  then  don't  get all pissy  with me,  Just know we can be *FRIENDS*   :_ )  ok?  

7/2/2013 7:06:27 PM

IF ... BDSM is your life, if you have no vanilla interest, IF you want to put BDSM into everything that you do ,  then surely you would not want to chat to me.  I have a life, I do things that have nothing to do with BDSM and I don't want anyone to try and put BDSM into them.  IF you want to ask me if my children know...  well I do not discuss the intimate details of my life with my children and I do not ask them for intimate details of theirs.  We are a close family but there are lines of respect that are honoured.  

12/2/2012 10:12:33 AM

HEY,   if your married or in a relationship   please  go and fuck  or play with her,  and if she wont,  then  why do you think i would want to...  sheeesh  must be  bad if she does not even want to....

7/27/2012 6:01:30 AM

IF you are a bigot, racist, or religious fantatic, then please just leave me be, as we would be like oil and water.

7/21/2012 12:12:55 PM

kinky does  NOT always mean slutty.....

KINKY:  Slang   Showing or appealing to bizarre or deviant tastes, especially of a sexual or erotic nature

SLUTTY: Slang  A person, especially a woman, considered sexually promiscuous..


1/26/2012 3:45:50 AM

Sometimes I  read profiles, just to read them.  So please dont think that i am hitting on you , if i read your profile.  I find the unique ones,  the fantasy ones, well amusing!!!

1/19/2012 4:12:12 AM

There is a huge difference in a  Dominate Man,  and a Domineering man.

SEEMS I  NEED TO SAY IT AGAIN:  to the Masters/Doms   I will consider licking pussy  right after i watch you suck a cock,    Put your mouth where your mouth is,   hehe,  

TO me : a switch is a submissive,  and i would never submit to a switch,  i would always ssee them as a submissive,  I know you might disagree,  but it is my opinion, which i am allowed to have ;)

NOTE:  if your profile picture is of a naked women,  remember I AM STRAIGHT,  so i will delete the message,  I  truly do not find pictures of naked women stimulating or inspiring.   thank you...  ps ..  if your showing me your cock.. then your saying your cock is the very best quality you have,  and that you think its about  that,   you too will be deleted,  probably unread.

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