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You can say hello. I am retired, but don't have a whole lot of time on my hands because of some of the volunteer work I do and my hobbies. I have two grown kids who have ventured off on their own. My son lives near by and I help him with his business. My daughter is out East exploring life. My house sits on a few acres of land that also helps to keep me busy. My wife passed away some time ago. I decided to get back into the dating scene. Of course we all know it is different than how it used to be. In some ways it is better depending upon what you are looking for. One thing I know I am not looking for and that is not a vanilla woman. I want a woman who is submissive actually more to the slave side of all this; who is not shy, willing to try new things, is very open minded, wants the limits pushed, and enjoys the thought of being a sexual slave. Yes, my wife was submissive. She was naturally submissive and always had a desire to please others. It was about 10 years before her passing that we ventured into a more D/s way of living. The more we explored the more submissive she became. We began talking about a poly house, but that is when she fell ill. The nurse who took care of her at home gave the feel of a poly house which I thoroughly enjoyed. I am open to all ages and races. I will not keep this behind closed doors. Nor will it be something I hide. I may be a father and raised two kids who are dominant in their own right, but I am not a "daddy dom". I do not keep this private.
4/14/2018 1:39:50 PM
Interesting what changes happen over a couple of months.

My son is now engaged to the submissive/slave girl he has been seeing.  We are all very happy for the two of them. 

As I stated before, her mother visits frequently and is still very submissive when visiting my place or my son's.  My son has determined that his future mother-in-law is more of a slave than a submissive.  She just had issues with how fast we took it all in the presence of her daughter.  Understandable. 

My daughter moved back in with me a week ago.  Things didn't work out for her where she was living.  She accepted my rules about living with me and, for now, things are going well.
2/18/2018 8:03:40 AM
It has been an interesting few weeks.  And last week both mom and daughter stood before my son and I nude and collared.

But my time with the mom came to an end shortly after that.  She wasn't ready to be owned so we chose to no longer have a relationship. 

She has visited since to spend time with her daughter and she has been submissive as is expected. 

Who knows what will happen in time. But, I am open to more adventures.   :-)

1/13/2018 8:35:54 AM
So, my son is still seeing this girl.  She is making her way further down her submissive path.  I think she could be a slave for him one day.  He was also happy to learn that she is bi-sexual.  

I took her up on her suggestion and called her mother.  We talked for a while and decided to meet for dinner.   She is an attractive woman with breasts that are bigger than her daughter's so when she showed up for dinner her top fit her well.  Anyway, she is a few years younger than I am, works, exercises, and has various hobbies.  

We talked for a while, had some drinks when she finally asked about our kids relationship.  She said that she started noticing her daughter acting differently.  She had become more pleasing, more structured, and other things.  She said before Christmas she asked her daughter what was going on.  It took them a couple of drinks, but they eventually got to the fact that she and my son are in a D/s relationship and then her daughter had to explain to her what that meant.  Her daughter also told her that I am dominant; probably more so than my son. 

She asked me about my relationship with my wife.  I told her about our M/s relationship.

At the end of dinner, she asked if I would show her.. 

 
12/31/2017 6:44:20 AM
In my basement, I have an exercise/workout area.   In that area, I have 2 treadmills. 

I use one of the treadmills on a regular basis.  It is important to me to try and stay physically fit.  

I would expect you to use the other one.

12/26/2017 7:11:30 AM
I spent Christmas at my son's place.   He is now dating the girl he brought to my place for Thanksgiving.  She helped him to decorate his house.   They did a very good job.   She even talked him into getting a real tree.  

He seems to really like her.   She is becoming comfortable with her submissive needs.  I think if the two stay together he could take her far down her submissive path.  He had her dressed in high heels, green and red stripped stockings, short green dress and a santa hat.  Very cute.  Made me want own cute little elf.  ha ha ha

Anyway, she made the meal and kept us happy with drinks and appetizers.  The food was very good.  Cooking is something her mom taught her.  I told her I am going to have to call her mom.  She laughed and said her mom might like to hear from me.  hmmm  ha ha


It was a very good day.



12/17/2017 11:27:51 AM
I have been here for a while and I have been on other similar sites as well.  One thing that bugs me is how much people hide this part of their lives. 

When we started to pursue this, my wife and I were open about it with our adult kids.  Our daughter had troubles with it, but our son ran with it.  I allowed my son to have some dominance within the house, which my wife was accepting of. 

My son has pursued his on D/s relationships and I believe has become a very good dom. When he brings a girl to the house, they understand their role.

My daughter is submissive, but she is having trouble accepting it.   She also favors other women which is something else she is having troubles with.  We have talked about both and I believe it is going to take a caring and strong woman to give her the life she needs.

11/24/2017 9:18:17 AM
Thanksgiving yesterday was very enjoyable.  My daughter is here with me visiting and my son and a young lady came over as well.   My son's girl and my daughter did all the cooking and pampered the two of us.  The meal was great.  My wife would have been proud.

My daughter is submissive, but she struggles with it.  When she is home she does fall into a domestic servant role.   She is now busily cleaning my house before she leaves tomorrow.

My son is dominant and the girl he brought over yesterday was obviously submissive. 
1/29/2017 8:44:11 AM
I edited my profile and brought it more up to date.  Thought I would put a little more info here. 

So, I have been looking here and other places for good women to explore with.  I have been fortunate enough to find a few.  Some whom I have simply had coffee with, some I have played with, and a couple who have spent some time at my place.  

I have met women who are my age and I have met women who are younger than myself.  Two were much younger which made the visits interesting.  

It is not easy finding compatibility.  
Domina4femslave
 
 Age: 19
 Manila, Philippines